LOL, what a bunch of whiners! The Civil War IS over, and the South DID lose, and I did have ancestors fight in it, on BOTH sides. I didn't mean to come across so down on yankees, I don't go out of my way to cause them harm, but if I have to choose between doing business with a yankee or with a person who is from the South, I'll opt for the local every time. If you are a Yankee transplant, you are welcome to the South as long as you don't try to constantly tell us how they did it up north, and why it was so great.
Of course if a yankee was trapped here in a snowstorm (we don't usually have snowstorms down here) I'd let them in the house so as not to freeze, but I might make them sit thru a history lesson if it came up that they were a yankee, especially one that thinks the civil war was about slavery, and that we here should just "get over it".
My best friend is a Yankee from Gary, Indiana. Indiana might not be an origianal Yankee state, but he talks like a Yank. He is also a very decent person, very polite, very successful, very responsible. I am sure that there are many Yankees like him. I just haven't met them. And yes, I do talk ???? to him for being a yank. He returns the favor.
BTW my g/f is from south GA, I don't think I could bring myself to marry a yankee.
My whole point is that people don't just "get over" war. No matter how many times you tell them to. They remember the rape and pillage that always goes along with it. They remember the humiliation of defeat and occupation. And they don't forgive it for generations. Russia is learning that in Chechnyea (sp?), a war that has been being fought since the late 1700's. French and British still don't like each other at all, despite having been allies in the last several wars, because for centuries before that they warred. Ask an Indian about Pakistan, or vice versa. Wars don't end just cause treaties get signed.
I apologize if I offended a Yankee who is also a good person. I get pissed when I hear people praise Sherman, or Goering, or other war criminals. Surely you can understand this.
As for there being socialists in the south, I am well aware of that, you are talking to one. My opinion is that there are not nearly enough like me, with both Che Guevera and 7.62 NATOs on their wall. But I am working on that.