Wow,
I am so impressed with all the big & bad I won't say I'm sorry when I screwed up men out there. Look everyone is seeing one side of the story, his version of freaking out may just be her yelling at him for a minute or two. As far as the gun in the bottom of the bag, that they were "both" using goes, you should know better than to put a gun half a$$ locked in the bottom of a bag and not tell her, as stated before you were the only one that knew the gun was locked and if she does not like guns well that is just how it is. As a responsible gun owner it is your job to secure your weapon at all times, not to let it float around in the bottom of a bag that your wife is carring. Marrige is about give and take. It is about not about never having to say your sorry. That is bullsh1t when you screw up say your sorry like a man and accept responsible for your actions. If she knows that you carry then she should also know safe handeling of the firearm and how to lock/unlock it. Did she overreact.....mabye/mabye not we dont know her like you should. If you knew she would react like that then you brought it on your self. Just think about what might happen and plan accordenly. Dont say your sorry if you are not. It will just make matters worst.