Rusty Shackleford
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I live in an apartment complex with a several story parking deck for resident's vehicles. As I was packing my car last Friday for a weekend trip, I noticed a couple arguing in the parking deck.
At first, I payed them absolutely no attention. It was none of my business until I noticed a commotion out of the corner of my eye. The man was pulling the woman out of the vehicle by her arm. She struggled back a little bit, but mostly just made gasping noises from the struggle. He then screamed in her face and shook her by the shoulders.
Obviously at this point I was looking directly at him and calling the police... I was also wondering at what point I would be morally obliged to stop this BS. I was also not averting my eyes(while giving his description to 911), so the man might think twice about trying to beat her with me watching.
He glanced at me, lowered his voice, but was obviously still hostile towards her. He did not touch her again, even though they continued arguing. As we drove past to leave, my girlfriend stuck her head out the window and asked her if she needed anything while the man was right there fussing at her. The woman said she was fine in the most polite and calm voice she could muster.
I told my girlfriend to pull over and park where we could still see them in case he went berserk before the cops got there. They continued arguing for about ten minutes in lowered voices and the man never touched her again. He then got in the car and left before the police got there.
After he left, we left. The police didn't show up within that 15 minutes or so. So much for ATLPD. I was armed the whole time. At what point would you personally walk over there and intervene? What are the moral and legal considerations?
At first, I payed them absolutely no attention. It was none of my business until I noticed a commotion out of the corner of my eye. The man was pulling the woman out of the vehicle by her arm. She struggled back a little bit, but mostly just made gasping noises from the struggle. He then screamed in her face and shook her by the shoulders.
Obviously at this point I was looking directly at him and calling the police... I was also wondering at what point I would be morally obliged to stop this BS. I was also not averting my eyes(while giving his description to 911), so the man might think twice about trying to beat her with me watching.
He glanced at me, lowered his voice, but was obviously still hostile towards her. He did not touch her again, even though they continued arguing. As we drove past to leave, my girlfriend stuck her head out the window and asked her if she needed anything while the man was right there fussing at her. The woman said she was fine in the most polite and calm voice she could muster.
I told my girlfriend to pull over and park where we could still see them in case he went berserk before the cops got there. They continued arguing for about ten minutes in lowered voices and the man never touched her again. He then got in the car and left before the police got there.
After he left, we left. The police didn't show up within that 15 minutes or so. So much for ATLPD. I was armed the whole time. At what point would you personally walk over there and intervene? What are the moral and legal considerations?