autospike, If you are sorry you posted then I have stated my opinion harshy. I am sorry. It's good that you are thinking of all possibilities. I hope that you won't let my abrasiveness keep you from posting in the future.
No apology necessary: It's really not your tone. I guess it's just frustration; I suppose it's just that my concerns and my perception of the world doesn't match with a lot of other folks.
I am 100% in favor of developing and honing your awareness skills so that you don't let anyone in close enough to damage you. I am also well aware of keeping my weapons concealed. I actively train both with others who feel the way that I do.
I *do* think that If I get into a situation where I'm having to defend myself with empty hands, or a stick, or a rock, or a knife, or a gun, I have probably made some error.
BUT, I also believe that the "real world" (admittedly my perception of the real world) puts me into many situations where my best awareness skills may not be good enough. And, I acknowledge that I'm not perfect.
If I get targeted for a *criminal assault*, I don't believe that the bad guy is going to give me a fair chance. I don't believe he'll be alone either. He probably will not know I'm armed. Maybe he'll approach me with a ruse. Maybe it will be his defenseless looking 17 year old girlfriend that approaches with her baby, asking me for help - while he comes up from behind me.
Do I train for that - to recognize that - to handle an "unknown contact" and scan/identify others? Yup, I do. But again, I'm only human. And I have a wife and two small children and sometimes one or more of them are with me and sometimes, they require a lot of my attention. They also put me in a place where I can't just cut and run if I'm presented with an unpleasant situation.
So for those reasons I train for the worst. For the time when I've made a mistake and one or more guys have closed in on me and I'm attacked, and we grapple, and he discovers my gun, and he goes for it, and we go to the ground and... you get the picture.
Stats on private citizens getting their guns taken? I have no idea. All I know is that if it gets to the point where someone is laying hands on you, and they detect your weapon, it's in play.
So I'm training for the worst so those who aren't serious about doing me harm will be easier to deal with.