Great family night in the garage reloading with the kids

ECVMatt

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A few months ago my eldest son passed away from complications related to cerebral palsy. It has been very hard on the family and we have all been a bit disjointed. We are a super tight family so it is unusual for us not all be together. This has added to the pain of his loss.

Tonight I went into the garage to reload some .357's and after about a 20 minutes my 12 year old daughter came in and started to help. About a half hour later my 17 year old son came in and joined the fun. We spent the next hour talking, laughing, kidding around and having fun. We got 500 rounds half way done and will finish them up tomorrow if they feel like joining me.

This was the first time in about 4 months that we have all been able to be together, not cry, and have fun.

I think this is what 99% of the anti-gun people miss. So much of our hobby is about outdoors, fun, and family. I am so happy that my kids love to reload/hunt/and shoot with me and that we can use these activities to learn life lessons, communicate, bond, and relax.

Tonight was the best therapy I have had so far, and it was free (well sort of). Hopefully they will join me again tomorrow to finish them up and then again when we head out to shoot them.

I am not sure if this thread is really related to reloading, but it was the reloading that made tonight possible.

Teach the young ones the right way and cherish every moment you have with them, good and bad.
 
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.
Reloading is one of the most enjoyable activities that my daughter and I work at together. I have quite a few memories standing at Grandpa‘s elbow and pulling the lever on the press… Grandpa’s not getting any younger, and I’m sure he’s not going to be around too much longer, whether I like to think about that or not… anyway, what a great family night…
 
Thank you all for the kind words. If I do half as much in my life as he did in his 20 years I will be ecstatic!

We are definitely living the One Day At A Time life right now, but the moments like last night are even more special.

We got back at it tonight and only made it through about 100 rounds before the kids pooped out, but that was good enough for me.
 
Wait til you see him on the otherside! No more weakness or pain. Funerals here, happy reunions there. Families are forever. Otherwise there's not much purpose for any of this. Keep the focus you have now, and his life will always mean something til it's your turn for the reunion.
 
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