HoosierQ
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You gotta size people up quickly. Indiana, being neither North or South, East or West is not quite as open and friendly a place as down south. A century of factory work I suppose. As such, folks around here, in general, offer a handshake when there is good cause to do so and in general folks all kinda get what good cause is. So if you are pumping gas as in the OP's post, and somebody walks up offering a hand, it is something out of the ordinary for general Hoosier manners. If for example, this guy turns out to be a long lost friend, in general, if he's a Hoosier, he's going to make sure you realize he's a long lost friend before he offers his hand...he's not going to lead with that.
So basically, in a setting like that where nobody reasonable would expect to be offered a handshake, I have never found one to be fully on the up and up. Somebody wants something that you are not offering, or is offering something that you have not solicited.
So, no, I don't shake hands with stangers in settings that would not warrent a handshake within the normal social paradigms.
So basically, in a setting like that where nobody reasonable would expect to be offered a handshake, I have never found one to be fully on the up and up. Somebody wants something that you are not offering, or is offering something that you have not solicited.
So, no, I don't shake hands with stangers in settings that would not warrent a handshake within the normal social paradigms.