I have similar issues. Essentially, if I print once, I run a significant risk of losing my concealed carry permit entirely. I can't carry my LCP in khakis in a Nemesis holster because it is plainly visible that it is a handgun, while its a little more discrete in jeans
Truly, you are being waaaay too paranoid. I was too, as are most folks, when they first start exercising our 2nd Amendment rights.
However, how you carry yourself is the only thing that would give you away! So . . .
I just TOSS my Model 37 Airweight, in its Uncle Mike's #3 pocket holster, into my front pants pocket and off I go!
When I'm off work I carry it everywhere that it is legal. I'm no convicted felon, I am a law-abiding US citizen with no reason to hang my head or to act strange in any way.
I went downtown the other night with my wife, to go to a new Italian restaurant. The city has had to resort to assigning a policeman to walk this area at night due to past "problems."
The cop was right in front of my car when I parked. I hopped out, walked right up to him and chatted for a few moments about the weather and such, and asked if he'd tried the restaurant out yet. No big deal.
Then, I confidently walked away . . . with my Model 37 in the front pocket of my DRESS pants! It took me awhile to realize that folks weren't gonna "make" me unless I acted strange. You'll get over this fear too!
REPEAT AFTER ME . . .
I'M AN HONEST CITIZEN WITH A CCW . . .
I'VE PASSED THE BACKGROUND CHECK AS A GOOD GUY . . .
I'VE DONE NOTHING WRONG . . .
I'M EXERCISING MY RIGHTS . . . and . . .
I'M NOT A SHEEP!!!
Cops in my area LIKE having honest folks like me, who are licensed to carry, being out there on the streets!
We've made a whole lifetime of being honest and law-abiding CITIZENS . . . and we are there should the cop need us too.
Heck, this year our Sheriff has TRAINED over 600 ladies in our area on basic awareness, self-defense AND in firearms training!
He's tired of the thugs in our town cracking the skulls of our ladies, slashing their faces, raping them and stealing their purses so he's doing something that has greatly stopped these attacks . . . turning sheep into sheepdogs!
Thanks to the Sheriff ALONG with our District Attorney TOO, our city is now a safer place to live . . . unless you are a thug looking for a soft target!
The Desantis is a slightly better holster (and a little more in price), but the $11 Uncle Mike's #3 will absolutely CONCEAL your roscoe and
effectively break up the shape of what is in your pocket! The only downside is they lose their corners after about a year and you have to spend another eleven bucks.