PATTONTIME - "P.S. I am purposely not carrying at or near work because of this , I do not think he will kill me only beat the crap out of me, and my biggest fear is being put in jail for defending myself "too aggressively" What a world we live in .... "
PattonTime, I do not think you are being realistic at all. When someone "beats the crap" out of someone else, that person beaten is always very seriously injured. You could very easily end up in a wheelchair for the rest of your life. It's not like fights you see in the movies, or what you might have experienced when you were a kid out on the school yard. It is down and dirty and the bad guy is trying his utmost to not only injure you but to destroy you!
Two weeks ago I was talking with a young man, who at the age of 33, three years ago, was attacked in a parking lot of a major chain super market here in Boise. He was putting groceries in the trunk of his car about 9:00 pm. He was parked at the far end of the parking lot. He did not see....
Three guys came up behind him and slugged him with a baseball bat to the back of the neck. He went down. They beat him, kicked him, and took his wallet. He told me he only had $35/$40. They "beat the crap" out of him, plus one of them tried to kill him by cutting his throat. (Yeah, I saw the scar.)
Aside from the cut throat, they broke his left wrist and shattered his right arm. He has more steel pins in his arms and hands than a pin cushion. They broke his neck and shattered a couple vertebrae in his upper spine. Several ribs were broken. He has had to have 13 operations on his neck and spine and he still can barely hobble along. He told me that if he did not walk every day, no matter the weather, he could not get out of bed the next day. He can not easily bend over to pick up anything from the ground or floor because of the damage to his spine.
I asked him if the police caught the guys who attacked, beat and robbed him and he said "No, I never really even saw them they hit me so fast. When the guy hit me in the back of the neck with the bat, it was all over for me."
So.... that is what happens when some scumbag piece of dung "beats the crap" out of someone.
Good luck to you, but don't ever think that someone who wants to hurt you and attempts it, isn't out to destroy your life.
L.W.