I feel sorry for old people who have lost it. My dad has advanced Parkinson's and probably a little dementia, although he can be pretty lucid most of the time, and is not violent, nor is he mobile enough to show up at someone else's doorstep. There are times though when it is pretty clear he is not really on the same planet as the rest of us. For now, he is here more than he is gone, but I know it is just a matter of time before he gets much worse.
His mom got that way. She spent almost five years thinking she was 12 years old back in Sweden living with her father again (her father died when she was 12).
From very close personal experience I can tell you that their delusions, dementia, or whatever it is, can seem very real to them. And even though now and then you seem to break though the delusions, it is always temporary.
Their only real hope is professional help of some kind. Often the best that can be done is to keep them in a setting where they cannot harm themselves. It is not a very satisfying situation, but sometimes it is all you can do.
His mom got that way. She spent almost five years thinking she was 12 years old back in Sweden living with her father again (her father died when she was 12).
From very close personal experience I can tell you that their delusions, dementia, or whatever it is, can seem very real to them. And even though now and then you seem to break though the delusions, it is always temporary.
Their only real hope is professional help of some kind. Often the best that can be done is to keep them in a setting where they cannot harm themselves. It is not a very satisfying situation, but sometimes it is all you can do.