The big thing about loading for auto pistols is how the rounds feed into the chamber. Some pistols are finicky about certain bullets, especially ones that have sharp edges like those you mention. In those cases you will have to adjust your OAL a bit to get reliable feeding and chambering. Keep in mind that when you adjust the OAL, it will change the pressure a bit, so be careful. Some pistols don't like truncated cones at all. A lot of loaders use only round nose bullets for that reason. Presumably your FMJ is probably a round nose, but it doesn't have to be. But they are very popular among auto pistol shooters for that reason.
Bottom line, it can be a guessing game loading for auto pistols at first. You'll have to experiment a bit. But be very careful if you start to go to shorter OAL. The pressures can rise very fast when you make the round too short.