I am not an older guy... early 30's. But I have to say I like them all. I have revolvers and auto's. I generally prefer a revolver for light pocket carry, CC backup, and perhaps for deer hunting since my slow-fire accuracy is better with a revolver.
However, for pistol combat against multiple armed assailants, I'll take my Glock if I have a choice. I can dispatch one or two targets pretty fast with my revolver, but I can't drop 6 falling plates at 25 yards in under 6 seconds with one. For that, I'll take an auto. Also, my fastest reload with a speedloader is still slower than my slowest reload with a magazine.
As for reliability, none of my centerfire pistols have ever failed me... revolver or not. So that part is a non-issue for me.
But like I said, I think they both have their place in my world. A plastic auto is an excellent tool, but a good revolver is a work of art.
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