Well, the answer's not as easy for me.
Some of the guns I have (or hope to) inherit come from my grandfather, who was in WWII and was a career California Highway Patrolman. I already have his M1 carbine. I will end up with his CHP commemorative S&W Model 38 revolver. Also, he had a Ruger model #1 in .357 that was a special CHP run that I HOPE to get.
My half-brother (Dad's son after 2nd marriage) will get my Dad's commemorative CHP revolver (my Dad was also a career CHP). At least there's two of those.... The 2 revolvers, the M1, and the Ruger should never, ever, see a pawn shop or internet website. I'll hand my grandfathers gun(s) back to my half brother before pass them to someone who'd hock them.
Thing is, only my half brother has the family last name with a chance to carry on the name. I am married to a wonder wife (and wouldn't change it for the world) but we won't have any kids of our own. I do have a wonderful stepson and stepdaughter that are her's from a previous marriage. They're as much my kids as I will ever have.
Still, I feel bad asking my father for family firearms when I know he knows if he passes them to my 1/2 brother, they stand a better chance of "staying within the family name."
So, in the end, I suppose all of my personal firearms will go to (in order):
1) my stepson and stepdaugter, if they're interested
2) my step-grandkids, if they're interested
3) my natural sister's 3 sons, if they're interested
My Dad and grandfathers firearms, the "family heirloom's", if you can call them that, would be split up between:
1) my half brother, if it looks like he's interested and will have kids
2) my sisters 3 boys, as these guns would be their grandfathers and great grandfathers guns
3) my stepson or stepdaughter, if they seem interested in keeping these guns
Also, I don't believe the mantra "I'll be dead so I don't care if they're sold..."
I'd like the important guns to stay in the family so that future generations can enjoy the stories and reflect on their family history. If a few greedy family members have to pay the price by not selling, tough *****.
I'd rather have a few great nephew's have my family's guns and be able to enjoy the stories, than have the guns sold off at an auction at my death. It's the least we (I) can do to pass on the family story.
--Duck911