bloodedsky
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Hello, Rainbow!
What would be your advice to someone in your shoes?
What would be your advice to someone in your shoes?
Robert's right. It's about control.
Tell them they can't bring their cell phones into your house. Make them lock 'em in the car.
Perhaps...but maybe I didn't make it clear that this has become a BIG issue. I mean crying females, sleeping on the couch, "You're hurting this family with your obsession"..." You didn't need a gun for 30 years"..."What is the matter with you?"...etc.
Aside from all the needless drama...they REALLY believe they are at greater risk in the presence of an armed man than with an unarmed man. As WRONG as that is - they have a RIGHT to their beliefs. Do I have a right to make them (in their minds) less safe?
rainbow, make them an offer. Individually, take them out shooting to teach family members "firearm safety", use a .22, but also show them how to safely work the firearms you own. Hopefully such an act will lessen their fear or concerns about that aspect of things.This past year, each of the brother-in-laws have come to visit us individually (the 3 of them are scattered about the country). I took the opportunity to take them to the range to teach them about gun safety and show them the fun involved in shooting. I offered no guarantee that they would enjoy it. I simply asked that they just try it. They agreed mainly because they knew I would never give up on guns and since I had them in my house, I wanted them to be safe around them and not afraid.
My dad used to say:
"Women have a DESIRE to control, but a psychological need to be dominated."
Maybe there is a member in your area that would be willing to "fake" a break in... That will convert even the most rabid anti.
Springmom said:Well, your dad was wrong. That's as ridiculous as if I were to say that "all men are knuckle-dragging, mouth-breathing, testosterone-poisoned idiots." Knock off painting us with that brush. It doesn't fit.
Quit being a jerk.
This is the worst idea I've ever read on here, and THAT is saying something.
Springmom said:Y'all want to keep bashing women, have at it. I'm out of here. Rainbowbob, I hope it ends up well for you; and I really do think that some time for them to adjust may bring its own solutions.