Full Definition of civilian
1
: a specialist in Roman or modern civil law
2
a : one not on active duty in the armed services or not on a police or firefighting force
b : outsider 1
civilian adjective
The above is from the Meriam Webster Dictionary. As an officer myself, I use the term to describe people not in law enforcement or the military. It's not derogatory or to make an "us vs them" statement, it's just a label to easier explain that there ARE differences between LEO's/.mil and the average citizen. The expectations are entirely different and thus a different title.
As for the topic of discussion, I live and work in Nebraska which is a "Shall notify" state. What do I think of it? It's nice to know, but I don't freak out about it. Knowing does avoid surprises if I have to take some action that involves a search or they are involved in a disturbance where it was part of it. Very much the "Don't make any moves towards it and we are good" vs the "Nuke from orbit, ZOMG!" for traffic stops. The vast majority of CCW permit holders are good people and unlikely to cause problems.
When have I disarmed a CCW permit holder? I had a guy one night that was unusually nervous on a traffic stop. CCW permit that was valid and a loaded Bersa under the seat. I don't know why he was as nervous as he was, but it was waaaaaaaaaaaaaay more nervous than even the most nervous of nervous traffic stops.... like nervous to the level where I thought he was moving drugs. It was obvious. I had him exit the car and I removed, and unloaded the gun. Also ran it. Why? Because it was making ME nervous.
On the flip side, I've stopped other CCW permit holders who didn't give me the heebee jeebee's and left it at the "Leave it alone and we'll be ok" and never had an issue.
It's always a case by case basis.
As for that "Us vs Them" Mentality, this comes entirely from working in an environment where:
a.) For whatever reason a large section of the community dislikes, distrusts, and berates the Police
b.) The administration for the department is taking no action to reach out to the community
c.) Officers feel like they have no support from anyone aside from each other
d.) Every action is nitpicked and monday morning quarterbacked to death
e.) The administration has not set a direction for the department and established policy to give supervisors tools to deal with the mentality
f.) Lack of police resources (adequate cruisers, gear, training, recognition, etc)
Becoming jaded in law enforcement isn't that common though. I've seen a few that have gotten that way, but the vast majority don't feel that way. There are times when I feel like I'm fighting the prosecutor's office though on big cases that they don't want to push full hog for. Repeat offender type stuff. I don't see any in my department being this way though. In spite of the best efforts of our police administrator (chief is too much credit), the community still overwhelmingly supports our department. People come forward with information and witnesses stay long enough to be interviewed. I don't feel like I have to write citations for every nitpicky ordinance violation to accomplish the end goal of keeping the city nice and the vast majority of people treat us with respect like we treat them with respect. I say in spite of our administrator because he is 180 degrees from the department on this... he wants us to write tickets for every jaywalking person and every yard that isn't exactly 8" or less in height. He refuses to allow the public to show their gratitude to the department by making donations or dropping off stuff at the department and he refuses to stand in front of the community when they want to recognize us. It's depressing and in a larger city, he absolutely would cause the above.