Well, I'll chime in, although somewhat prematurely.
I went under the knife, so to speak, for my eyes about 2 weeks ago. I did PRK, not LASIK, so my vision is still healing. However, the improvement is amazing. I'll try to remember to post again when things have stabilized.
Anyway, lately I had been thinking seriously about getting it done for a variety of reasons. I'd been putting it off for years due to a number of the concerns listed above, but I decided that I wasn't getting any younger, so I might as well do it now.
Here's my brief story. Upon deciding to seriously investigate it, I asked everyone I knew who did it and knew people that did it if they were happy with it and where they got it done. Then I set out to make some appointments. Just about everyone who does LASIK will give you a free screening. I recommend doing a couple of these.
The first doctor I went to was an eye surgeon and the head of the opthamology department at one of the larger hospitals in the area. He did a few of the scans, looked at my eyes and said he didn't think I was a candidate for LASIK due to a combination of thinner corneas and the shape of my left eye could result in a higher risk of complications. He said he could fix my eyes using PRK, which is another method that is similar, but doesn't use the flap like LASIK. The catch is that it takes longer for your vision to stabilize and is actually quite uncomfortable for the first few days Plus, you're out of service for a few more days.
The second place I went to was a outfit that specialized in LASIK. Then did the same scans and the doctor there told me a I was a perfect candidate for LASIK. I was then shuffled off to a scheduler who told me about their great deal they were having until the end of the year.
So, I went to a third place. This time I went to the eye center of a local research hospital. They did an even more exhaustive exam than the first two and reached the same conclusion as the first doctor. I was not a candidate for LASIK, however, I could get get PRK done.
In the end, I got PRK done. 5 days after the surgery, I had gone from an uncorrected 20/400 to about 20/25. However, it takes from a month to 3 months for everything to settle out. I'm not quite two weeks in, so we're still waiting.
I can give people specific PRK tips if anyone is interested, but since it is so much less common, I'll leave it until my report unless someone wants to hear.
So, in the end, my advice is to go to several places to get screened and try to go to places that don't primarily rely on LASIK as the primary source of income.
Also, if you company has a Flexible Spending Account/Cafeteria Plan, you can put money for LASIK/PRK in it pre-tax. Ask your benefits person about it. That saved me several hundred dollars since I didn't have to pay tax on the money I used. Frankly, if you have any recurring or expected medical expenses, you should look into it.