The main reason behind prepping new brass is uniformity, to get all the peices the same, that way you have a known starting point instead of relying on someone elses work.
The prep could be as simple as a visual inspection, looking for dented case mouths etc., or quick measuring of the length to make sure the crimp(if used) will be in the correct spot and that it is not too long, or looking for hanging flash hole chads.
No doubt neck sizing after the first firing will extend the life of your brass, wether it will be more accurate than full length sizing is strictly a gamble, and it depends on a lot of factors, such as chamber dimensions ,barrel and crown quality and I could go on and on. The only way is to shoot and keep records.
The Lee collet die is easy enough to use , but so is backing out your full length die enough to only size just the neck, if you sart with the die just barely touching the case mouth and screw it in bit at a time you can see the ring on the brass neck as it moves down the case towards the shoulder, and you want to stop before it touches the shoulder.
If you shoot you brass first, it will conform to slightly under chamber specs, and then neck size only, the brass gets worked a whole lot less, and using either method neck sizing will retard from it "growing in length", but it won't stop it completley.
I like the collet, 'cause you don't have to lube, but as previously stated in post #2, you have to factor in neck tension "bullet grip", to get the best accuracy.