I'd be more leery of the boyfriend. I don't have a daughter(yet), I have a son, and my wife is pregnant with number two, which we hope is a girl. However my wife says there are going to be some definates if we have a girl. one is EXTREMIST overprotective father. Daddy's little girl will be the understatement of the century. Finally that I will be the biggest pushover and that my daughter will have me wound around her little finger so tight the jaws of life couldn't set me free. I fear she may be right. I already know it would be my daughter going to the range with me, wrenching on the truck with me, going on the long haul drives with me, etc. Don't get me wrong I love my son and I spoil him. Not quantity the inlaws overload him with all kinds of stuff. I very carefully pick what i buy for him and it's always a winner. The first toy I bought him was a bigrig hauling livestock. The second was a John Deere Harvester(yes I'm a redneck). I'm already trying to decide what is going to be his first firearm. However if I have a daughter I have the distinct feeling I'm going to go broke very quickly the minute she is old enough to say "daddy can I have this." "Sure darling anything you want." I gotta get a VERY high paying job, or convince Bill Gates to adopt me. May God have mercy on my soul, and yours my friend. Boyfriend, I am terrified of that word beyond belief. Even moreso others that may accompany it. YIKES! Sympathy and prayers.
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Reminds me, somewhere last year on here, was a picture of a gorgeous little girl, I think about 8 years old it was said, it was the daughter of one of the posters, she was shooting a mtch grade AR-15 in competition(and doing well I might add), and almost the entire thing was pink. The rifle was custom built from readily available parts which were readily available in pink. Even the upper and lower recievers were pink. The only things that weren't were a few things that would be impractical such as the trigger, mags, and such IIRC.
Also to put a point accross and to make an offer to my family for their children(this family ain't against guns, just don't have any) for me to teach their children responsible and safe firearms handling, and hence personal responsiblity, I used that picture in a peronsal blog for family, hope the owner doesn't mind. My son is too young to use(year and a half) otherwise I would use him. If you wish me to remove it though, I will do so.