Of course I was kidding on the 44mag snubby, although I know someone that does use one as everyday carry (and had to make many clothing compromises to make it work).
I do see the point, I suppose it's due to how much snappier I feel 9mm is. I do have to re-align my sights when firing, which slows me down a bit. Snappier recoil is harder to control without significant amounts of training, which my concern is most of the defensive forearms owners do not do.
We the internet shooters seem to be better about it (or say we are)...but I feel we are in the smallest minority here.
I know I go through about 1500 rounds of 9mm and about 250 rounds of .25acp a year on my two carry weapons. the .25 I'm already well beyond capable at defensive ranges..it's just a box of ammo every now and then to be sure I don't lose familiarity with it, since it's accuracy is very grip dependant...and it slide bites, so I need to keep my callous up.
The 9mm I'm starting to get really good at, but it's been a long road with it....perhaps if I didn't start with an ultra-light pistol to begin with, I'd have it down by now. There was much trial and error to learn how to not get a numb hand when shooting it....once the hand goes numb, accuracy goes to hell since I can't rely on mucle feedback anymore.