Hockeydude said:
Wow I didn't know I have a disease! Is there a cure?
Yeah. Get a car. Take a road trip away from your navel-gazing little hamlet for six weeks. Take a few tours with real estate agents in a few places, and see what sorts of different lifestyles people are willing to pay good money for. Ask them if they would really rather live in Brooklyn.
Don't be a jerk, which probably means, shut up and learn to talk politely to people. It will be really weird at first.
Gulliani was a good mayor. He put more cops on the streets and cleaned the place up. But also credit needs to be given to the economic boom of the 90s. A good economy and quality of life means less crime. But with the .com burst and the way things are going with Bush, I wouldn't be surprized if in the next decade NYC turns into another Detroit.
Or another NYC, circa 20-30 years ago.
Don't be fooled by how socially liberal New Yorkers are. NYC is the capitalist capital of the world. It's a dog eat dog society. NYC certainly is no Paris.
No one's fooled. It's generally assumed -- rightly or wrongly -- that most New Yorkers would sell their children for the right price.
And I've found NYC to be a bearable, even a fun place to live even though the gun laws are insane. It's funny to go into manhatten and make fun of all the freaks on the train.
Whoopee!!
My family doesn't even own a car. Shoprite is right around the corner and there are plenty of places to shop and eat.
Contrary to popular belief, most Americans don't have cars because they are somehow forced to. They like to get out a bit. And also contrary to popular belief, many people, especially in the South and West, actually like their lives to consist of something more than shopping and eating. Note the popularity of outdoor sports, arts, crafts, hobbies, etc. Hence the desire for things like garages, which are rooms attached to houses, designed for storing cars, but often used to store backpacks, mountain bikes, surfboard, skiis, etc., and for projects like building furniture or hot rods, and as amateur artists' studios.
Just giving you guys a perspective on how it's not that bad here. Although I do plan to move away soon to persue my love of firearms. The only thing I've found not possible in NY.
There are lots of things not possible in NY, despite the excellent shopping and eating opportunities.
I'm not telling you not to like it. It's just funny how many New Yorkers are unaware of the opportunity costs of their lifestyles, simply because they haven't entertained a lot of alternative ideas.
People don't buy cars and live in diverse places around the US because they HAVE to. Many of them really WANT to.
You'd be hard-pressed to find a San Diegan who would rather live in NYC, I can guarantee you. But you won't have to look far to find a former New Yorker living here.