There is a big difference between knowing how to kill and having the ability...and choosing to do so. If you know how to kill, then you have a choice. If you refuse to learn how to kill, it is not possible to "choose not to kill someone." You couldn't do it anyway...no choice.
There is an instructor I heard about in a particularly violent RBSD system who states he would never kill anyone no matter what for religious reasons. That said, he fully learned and can teach all the lethal combatives techniques. This gives him the ability to understand how to take a life, and how not to by mistake. It also makes it a true chioce on his part to have the knowledge and ability and choose not to take it to that level.
As others stated, the body can train the mind. If she does get involved in a RBSD system she needs to learn all of it, not skip the lethal stuff. It will give her a lot of confidence to know she could kill, and that she can choose not to.
One critique I have of a lot of systems is they gloss over lethal techniques without fully explaining the implications. Like, they'll have a technique that includes a punch to the throat, but not say anything about it, or say "this could kill him" and leave it at that. Every lethal, or high injury strike should be fully explained from a medical perspective so the practitioner knows ahead of time what they are practicing to do. It's like when firearms instructors explain how serious blowing a hole in someone's chest is, and how long it may take them to bleed out and what it will (or will not) look like. This prepares you for the real aftermath of a shooting, not the clean Hollywood one-shot knocks him down stuff.
So, what does a throat strike do? When you forcefully strike the thryroid cartillage (Adam's apple) or the crychoid-sp? (little bone that holds the wind pipe open, just above the Adam's apple) it causes the windpipe to close off. The person will lose consiousness from O2 deprivation and slowly asphyxiate to death unless a trachiostomy is performed. It won't be pretty watching someone turn blue and die in such a fashion. Like a handgun, this is a very serious thing only to be done when your life is in danger. A non-lethal alternative is to strike the trachea below the adam's apple. This will just cause them to cough and sputter a little.
Any time you put your hands on someone it should be a serious situation...don't assume just because you are doing "non-lethal" strikes, you are in total control. What if you let your ego get the best of you and just wanna teach the jerk a lesson by hitting his trachea? You do it, he falls and fractures his skull on the pavement...ooops. Manslaughter charges, should have left the situation any way you could if leaving was an option. I welcome any EMT's, doctors to critique my explanation of the throat strike above to include terminology and spelling. If I'm off base, I want to learn the correct stuff.
Before anyone complains that I shouldn't describe stuff like that on the internet...on THR the best place to blast someone in order to achieve a "stop" is discussed frequently...deadly force is deadly force no matter the tool.
There is an instructor I heard about in a particularly violent RBSD system who states he would never kill anyone no matter what for religious reasons. That said, he fully learned and can teach all the lethal combatives techniques. This gives him the ability to understand how to take a life, and how not to by mistake. It also makes it a true chioce on his part to have the knowledge and ability and choose not to take it to that level.
As others stated, the body can train the mind. If she does get involved in a RBSD system she needs to learn all of it, not skip the lethal stuff. It will give her a lot of confidence to know she could kill, and that she can choose not to.
One critique I have of a lot of systems is they gloss over lethal techniques without fully explaining the implications. Like, they'll have a technique that includes a punch to the throat, but not say anything about it, or say "this could kill him" and leave it at that. Every lethal, or high injury strike should be fully explained from a medical perspective so the practitioner knows ahead of time what they are practicing to do. It's like when firearms instructors explain how serious blowing a hole in someone's chest is, and how long it may take them to bleed out and what it will (or will not) look like. This prepares you for the real aftermath of a shooting, not the clean Hollywood one-shot knocks him down stuff.
So, what does a throat strike do? When you forcefully strike the thryroid cartillage (Adam's apple) or the crychoid-sp? (little bone that holds the wind pipe open, just above the Adam's apple) it causes the windpipe to close off. The person will lose consiousness from O2 deprivation and slowly asphyxiate to death unless a trachiostomy is performed. It won't be pretty watching someone turn blue and die in such a fashion. Like a handgun, this is a very serious thing only to be done when your life is in danger. A non-lethal alternative is to strike the trachea below the adam's apple. This will just cause them to cough and sputter a little.
Any time you put your hands on someone it should be a serious situation...don't assume just because you are doing "non-lethal" strikes, you are in total control. What if you let your ego get the best of you and just wanna teach the jerk a lesson by hitting his trachea? You do it, he falls and fractures his skull on the pavement...ooops. Manslaughter charges, should have left the situation any way you could if leaving was an option. I welcome any EMT's, doctors to critique my explanation of the throat strike above to include terminology and spelling. If I'm off base, I want to learn the correct stuff.
Before anyone complains that I shouldn't describe stuff like that on the internet...on THR the best place to blast someone in order to achieve a "stop" is discussed frequently...deadly force is deadly force no matter the tool.