"I am open to suggestions on where to look. I did get some cerrosafe but haven't followed though on that"
You are open to suggestions? Good! That means I do not have to make the choir happy with my answer.
First, my opinion, you are neither fire forming or forming, you are necking-up 30/06 cases to 8mm06 cases. Long before I had a 35 Whelen and or a 338/06 I had a set of dies for both chambers. Rational? Or reason for dies I do not need, I am a case former, I form first then fire, I do not fire first then try to determine the effect the chamber had on the case when fired, it is about cutting down on case travel.
Because I am the only fan of reducing/eliminating case travel it is common for me to neck up 200 30/06 cases to 35 Whelen and or 338/06 with no intention and or plan to reload the cases, the dedicated purpose for the necked-up cases is to determine the length of a chamber from the bolt face to the shoulder of 'A' chamber 8mm06, 30/06, 270 W down to 25/06, and no, there is nothing about determining the length of the chamber that demands me to reload the cases, not an easy concept to get past the choir, first: I want to determine the length of the chamber from the bolt face to the shoulder of the chamber, if when determine the length of the chamber a few cases give up their place on this earth it was/is for a good cause, I put no demand on a case that requires it to survive 47 firings, again, I am a case former, I am not vain.
"....gave up making cases after getting 40-50% collapsed shoulder when resizing"
If the shoulder of your cases are collapsing when necking up you could have a problem with the neck sizer/ expander ball, something like necking up 25/06 to 30/06 with RCBS dies that were manufactured before 1983, the old sizer/expander did not have enough tapper.
Effort when necking up, necking up 30/06 to 338/06 and or 35 Whelen shortens the length of the case (who measures?) as much as .035", then there is the confusion about the neck getting thicker and or thinner (who measures?, my cases get shorter because necking up shortens the neck and get longer when necking down because necking down lengthens the neck.
Compensating for cases getting shorten when necking up, use a longer case. back to the part where I said "my favorite case is the 280 REMINGTON" because the 280 Remington case is longer from the head of the case to the shoulder .051" than the 30/06 when measured from the same place as in from the head of the case to the shoulder, this means nothing to a fire former but for the case former? The case former can not miss, all that is required for the cases former to know is 'the length of the chamber from the bolt face to the shoulder of the chamber, meaning? The case former has .51 options when sizing the length of the case, some reloaders grind the top of the shell holder, some reloaders grind the base of the die, some purchase Skip' shims then others purchase Redding competition shell holders.
Nothing drives a case former to the curb, some have nice tools, not necessary tools, nice tools but not necessary tools.
Necking up 280 Remington cases, use new cases or once fired cases, neck splits, nickel plated? expect 40% failure when going from 280 Remington to 338/06, for me? no loss, AGAIN, the case, is a tool, the case can become an expandable tool, for a case to give up it's place on earth when forming is a small price to pay, then there is the drilling the primer pocket/flash hole, another sacrifice for the case to pay when determine the maximum overall length of a case determined by the ojive/rifling contact.
F. Guffey