The whole concept of asking my wife's permission for something makes the hair stand up on the back of my neck!
Shoveling money into a 401K was the WORST financial decision of my life. Buying my home and acquiring quality firearms rank #1 and #2 as top investments in my life. NOTHING has appreciated in value as much as those two items. I had the guts to see that long ago and let nothing deter me from that plan.
I was divorced in 1975 and vowed to NEVER get married again. After 36 years, I'm still true to that promise. Many women have been in and out of my life since then and there have some good times and great times but there has never been a time when a woman told me what to do or when to do it.
Had I listened to their protests, I never could have retired. "How many guns do you need?" and "This place is pretty small.....maybe we need a bigger place" still echo in my memory. Having a small, economical home that I could afford beats the crap out of a huge place that becomes a giant sucking sound on my finances.
If your bills are paid, the home is secure, you have money in the savings, your lady and family are loved and taken care of then it's nobody's business if you want a new gun. I have never owned a gun that became LESS valuable!
Incidentally, I'm retired now and money is tight but a Harley Davidson was on my "bucket list." I took money out of my savings, bought a CD, used that as collateral on a loan and bought the bike. The bike is several years old, it had 100 miles on it and the large initial depreciation had already been scraped off its value. When it's paid off, the savings will be intact, I'll have the bike and it was a responsible, financially sound, decision. That satisfied a life long "want", it was important to me and sometimes the BEST decision is not the most popular one.
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