sacp81170a
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"Get back!" tells him you aren't comfortable with him being close to you.
But if said loudly enough, it draws the attention of any witnesses nearby. This may or may not help, but it's a factor.
But it does not communicate to him what you are prepared to do if he continues making you feel uncomfortable.
Agreed, simply standing there yelling "Get back!" only makes you look fearful. Taking a bladed position, moving your weapon side out of his easy reach, stepping diagonally back and away, putting something between yourself and the VCA are all vitally important parts of the message. By making it harder for him to lay hands on you and get at what might be a weapon you are preparing to draw, you send a clear message as to what you are preparing to do. That's why I say just verbal commands with no tactical movement and positioning are far less likely to be effective.
Roughly 90% of communication has nothing to do with the words we use. How might we be able to communicate to a violent predator, in ways that he understands and respects, that we are not an easy lunch?
Exactly. Practice the whole package.
The bluff has been called. What's next?
Extend, neutralize his actions by creating reactionary distance... run away! Ready your weapons. If only contact weapons have been presented now's the time to use OC if you have it. If he can't touch you, he can't hurt you, unless he has a gun. Even then, distance is your friend.
What you're discussing is exploring ways to encourage the Criminal Actor to form restraining judgements, provided he's willing to doing so. The way we can accomplish this is to develop ways to announce and communicate to the VCA, in language that he understands, that we:
Recognize him for who he is and what he's about to do;
We are prepared to effectively respond and resist him;
In a fashion that appears both strong and comfortable, and not as a bluff.
As always, by putting him at a tactical disadvantage by moving to a position of advantage yourself, you seize the initiative from him. Move to put something, anything you can, between you, whether it's a car, a garbage can or a light post. If you can't find anything, circle to his weak side if you can tell which side that is.
Having your tape loop running along with your feet tells him you haven't frozen in fear and that he may very well have something to fear himself. Use a firm but not strained voice, and always watch the hands.
Moving targets are much harder to hit.
ETA:
As always, circumstances will dictate your actions. Verbal commands might not be an option. Oh, one other thing: Get thee to some force on force training and thou shalt learn what works.