Short answer: MOVE
1.) If he was really going to kick your a$$, he would have by now.
2.) Don't print up the flyers, they will only antagonize him, and I am sure the other neighbors are already aware of him.
Good advice.
I have been in a similar situation once and seen several others transpire. I grew up in the bad parts of the city and have almost always lived in apartments. With me it ended when they up and moved one day. I have seen the whole situation just dissolve with a friend who was involved in something similar; they just got over it one day. Another time the guys place was broken into while he slept and he was stabbed 25 times. He survived by the way. From the way I heard it told a firearm would not have done him an ounce of good.
The buyout on my lease is $450. Thats the price of a decent gun. I would rather pay the $450 and move than believe my wife is in danger. I would rather pay the $450 than have to kill someone. Talk to the apt manager and the property owner. See if you can get a different apt in a different building of the same complex without having to pay a new deposit or buy out your lease. Maybe a change in proximity will solve your problem.
What kind of handgun is not HUGE but not tiny, something that says "I'm not f*cking around." when it's being pointed at someone. A gun that is... cheaper.. not so large it's a burden to carry/hold up but not something so small that it's more "cute" than "oh sh*t!", inducing. If you get my meaning.
How the gun looks is irrelevant.
Do not threaten people with firearms.
Making a threat on the life of another person is illegal, especially so if you use a gun. Not only is it illegal but it will escalate the level of violence. Also: its stupid. Why would you threaten someone whom you believe is a dangerous drug addict? Why would you want this person to know you have a gun?
Situations where you
do not need to be pointing a gun at someone.
1. Your and/or your wife's lives are not in immediate danger
2. You are not prepared to use
deadly force.
3. You are trying to scare someone.
Situations where you
do.
1. Their current behavior could be described as "trying to kill you".
2. You believe that in the
immediate future they are going to try to kill you.
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I guess what I am trying to say here is that if you are worried that your neighbor won't take your gun seriously then you need to reevaluate your ideas on using a gun for self defense.
The the real questions are:
"How to diffuse a potentially violent situation?"
"What dose it mean to take the life of another?"
"Am I capable of taking the life of another?"
"What are mistakes that gun owners make in SD/HD situations?"
"What constitutes a SD/HD situation, both to myself and legally?"
"When is use of a deadly weapon justified both legally and to myself"
"Where can I seek training in the use of firearms for self defense?"
"What are the potential consequences of homicide in my state?"
"What dose my lawyer say about all this?"
"What dose my wife say?"