I'm going to step on some toes and suggest that three gun and defensive fighting are two different things.
If you plan on carrying a pistol, have practiced transistion drills, and use a sling, have you done so indoors in your home? That is just one scenario of defensive fighting, and not the only one. Assuming you have your gear available at a moment's notice, can get into it, and be prepared to confront someone, would you be putting on a belt and holster, or just grabbing the AR?
My point is, sling use is another tacticool recommendation made by users who focus on a competitive event and assume it would be useful in actual combat in a defensive role.
Most likely, someone armed with an AR won't have a pistol, won't need to keep the AR from hitting the ground while using the pistol, and should be doing a better job of using the AR or making sure it was highly reliable to not need the pistol. The transition to sidearm scenario is based on sudden failure, that LEO/Mil will see it more often due to their constant confrontational work habits. It's a nice accessory for a two gun advanced user, not the casual gun owner. It's not even a recommendation by the military on a consistent basis.
In urban use, vehicular, or in buildings, slings get caught on stupid things, which create sudden changes in the users handling and negotiation of obstacles, like staircases, vehicle doors, fencing, furniture, vegetation, ad infinitum. A single point sling reduces the exposure, but no sling at all minimizes the risk to zero. You won't ever see snag obstacles on a range precisely because it's unsafe. Nonetheless, the world is filled with them.
The constant chant of the mantra "optic/light/sling" distracts from the fact a user needs to practice without them and get the basics down to the point they can't make a mistake. The chant focuses on buying gear rather than training, and assumes a high standard of expertise on someone with a credit card, rather than reinforcing the need to invest time in training.
I have no complaint about optics, especially red dots, and lights can be helpful if correctly controlled, I draw the line at slings. Unless highly skilled, slings can do more harm than good for an excited and untrained user.