My home invasion last night. What are the odds?

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Your basis for that?

Hint: it is not true.
DeShaney vs. Winnebago and Town of Castle Rock vs. Gonzales, the supreme court has ruled that police agencies are not obligated to provide protection of citizens. Since I’m just a lay person, ask Frank.
 
In no jurisdiction imay you lawfully employ deadly force because someone has done something.
You sure can. As long as that “something” falls under a statutory law permitting such a response and there is precedent. It’s called “stare decisis”. It’s the whole premise of a precedent. That the law must be applied equally.

If what you’re saying is true, then precedent means nothing. And if what you’re saying is true, then that also means that what you’re saying may also not be true.

See how absurd this becomes?
 
DeShaney vs. Winnebago and Town of Castle Rock vs. Gonzales, the supreme court has ruled that police agencies are not obligated to provide protection of citizens.
That is true. Do you know what it means?

Hint: It means that the community may not be found liable for damages resulting from a crime that was not prevented by police. That's it.

You sure can.
No. One may lawfully prevent, but one may not punish.

The rest of that is irrelevant gibberish.

I hate to put it quite this way, but it is very evident that you do not know what you are talking about.
 
That is true. Do you know what it means?

Hint: It means that the community may not be found liable for damages resulting from a crime that was not prevented by police. That's it.

No. One may lawfully prevent, but one may not punish.

The rest of that is irrelevant gibberish.

I hate to put it quite this way, but it is very evident that you do not know what you are talking about.
You can say I’m wrong all you want. But until you prove I’m wrong, which you haven’t even begun to do, you saying I don’t know what I’m talking about means....nothing.

I’ve provided case law. I’ve provided statutory law. You haven’t provided anything but conjecture and now pejorative statements directed towards me.

Again:In DeShaney v. Winnebago County Department of Social Services, 489 U.S. 189 (1989), the U.S. Supreme Court held that the only duties of care required by the Constitution are those extended to individuals who are restrained by the government and therefore unable to protect themselves. This includes prisoners and involuntarily committed mental patients.

Warren v. District of Columbia, 444 A.2d 1 (D.C. Ct. of App. 1981)”fundamental principle of American law is that a government and its agents are under no general duty to provide public services, such as police protection, to any individual citizen.

So you go ahead and “may and might” that one all you want. But that clearly states that the officer had no duty to protect Jimmy if he was in my home and my dog was attacking him. A moral duty? Sure. I’ll buy that. A legal duty? Nope.

So a precedent is irrelevant gibberish. That’s interesting. Because the above cases were precedent. And have been used as precedent.

You’re past the point of playing devil’s advocate. You’re to the point now you just have to win. You have to be smarter than the nurse who went to college to be a cop. Telling the guy who’s home was invaded and thought enough that something that could have gone horribly wrong, ended without incident, that he needs to think? That’s rich. Well, here you go. Enjoy
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My first thought? Gee just like real life...

Seriously in 22 years as a cop I’ve had my share of bizarre moments as well. Some of them wouldn’t be believed if you saw them in a movie.

All too frequently your first impressions in a critical moment are just wrong so my best advice is not to act until your possible opponent has declared themselves hostile by their actions - while at the same time maneuvering into a position that would allow you to move forward and engage or retreat if necessary (and yes that immediate adrenaline dump is very hard to deal with as well...).

Glad it worked out okay -and that you had the good judgment to cut the officer some slack.. Hope he learned a valuable lesson ( and no I won’t be recounting my own screw-ups).
Every cop should write a book. I know my dad and brother could. It’s every bit as bizarre as working psych. I’ve heard the stories and I’ve seen it first hand on ride alongs. You don’t even have to embellish. The truth is hard enough to believe.
 
Again:In DeShaney v. Winnebago County Department of Social Services, 489 U.S. 189 (1989), the U.S. Supreme Court held that the only duties of care required by the Constitution are those extended to individuals who are restrained by the government and therefore unable to protect themselves. This includes prisoners and involuntarily committed mental patients.

Warren v. District of Columbia, 444 A.2d 1 (D.C. Ct. of App. 1981)”fundamental principle of American law is that a government and its agents are under no general duty to provide public services, such as police protection, to any individual citizen.
We have disucced that subject here at great length during the past decades.

Again, what they mean is that the government cannot be held liable for losses incurred as the result of criminal by another party.

That is as it must be. The police cannot be everywhere at once.

They do not mean that police officers are not authorized or expected tp intervene and use force as necessary to protect a citizen from harm.

That means that if a person or animal is harming another person, the officer must and will act to prevent it.

So a precedent is irrelevant gibberish.
No.

What is gibberish is the idea that a citizen may employ deadly force because someone has done something, rather than to prevent certain actions when immediately necessary.

You will find abundant precedent supporting that, and nothing in statute or at common law that says otherwise.

Stare decisis is a term used to summarize a court decision. It means "the prior decision stands".
 
That's just nuts. I try to stay calm and focused, but the whole thing probably would have got my genie out of the bottle. While the whole regrettable mess should have never happened in the first place, the silver lining is that someone of your background had a better understanding of the situation and ID'd the deputy. I'm not sure that would have prevented me from acting very negatively in my own house at the time. Hope the ladies are doing better.
 
That's just nuts. I try to stay calm and focused, but the whole thing probably would have got my genie out of the bottle. While the whole regrettable mess should have never happened in the first place, the silver lining is that someone of your background had a better understanding of the situation and ID'd the deputy. I'm not sure that would have prevented me from acting very negatively in my own house at the time. Hope the ladies are doing better.
Like I said, I can’t fathom the odds for it to have played out so perfectly. People here often speculate what they would do in a home invasion. I admit, things didn’t go down how I anticipated a home invasion to go. Not even close. And honestly, I’m glad they didn’t. So my response was also not what I envisioned it would be. This could have been so bad for all parties involved and likely would have been had he not chosen this exact house. We never know what we will do until it happens. Now I know at least how I reacted this time. Odds are I will never be faced with this situation again. I won’t change how I live. I won’t succumb to fear. The reality is it was a perfect mistake (oxymoron).

The girls are great. They were perfectly fine the next day. Riding their bikes in the road, playing with the puppies, and going to the neighbors houses. Life was back to normal.
 
Certainly a disconcerting situation, and it's good that it turned out okay.

I have had two home invasions, one involving explicit threats of murder, and two attempts. That kind of thing can impact sleep patterns for a day or two.
 
Certainly a disconcerting situation, and it's good that it turned out okay.

I have had two home invasions, one involving explicit threats of murder, and two attempts. That kind of thing can impact sleep patterns for a day or two.
It sure could. Did you ever give an in-depth account, like mine, of the events? I’d be very interested to read the background, how the events transpired, the reaction, the reason for your reaction, and the outcome. Obviously it will be a much different story than the one I told just by your previous post. If you didn’t and don’t want to, that’s fine. I have no desire to Monday morning quarterback anything.
 
Did you ever give an in-depth account, like mine, of the events? I’d be very interested to read the background, how the events transpired, the reaction, the reason for your reaction, and the outcome

No.

If you didn’t and don’t want to, that’s fine.

For reasons described in one of our Sticky threads, it is very imprudent to post such accounts in public.

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In your case, I see little risk, but do read the Sticky.

But when one has chased off a then-old intruder in 1964 and no one was hurt....

Disguised details:
  1. Man tries back door, even though the car is in the driveway. Locked. Starts breaking in. He sees a revolver and rethinks his plan for the evening.
  2. Man follows woman asking to use phone into house. Attacks woman and knocks my mother to the floor. With potential hostages out of his reach, Smith, Wesson and I enter the room. He leaves.
  3. Man tries every door and window to enter remote mountain cabin. Car parked outside. There is no phone. He finally gains entry. The very stoned, hairy Hippie, naked except for a headband with a peace sign on it, politely complies with my suggestion that he depart. Col. Colt had made us equal.
Leaving one out here.
 
So this actually happened last night just before I was supposed to go to work at 21:15....I call it a “perfect storm” for many reasons. But I can’t even fathom the odds. First, a little back story. Fair warning: This will be a long post so I can give an accurate representation of the events.

My girlfriend and I are both nurses. Before that I worked 8 years at a psych facility primarily as a tech but we were also our own security. I have a history of wrestling and MMA (I’m no Bas Ruten or Royce Gracie but I can and have held my own against much larger and stronger opponents) and my threat assessment skills are way above average. She was an aide for 10 years in Alzheimer’s/Dementia/Psych at the VA. So she’s seen a lot too. Currently she is a nurse at small facility.

About 3 weeks ago she got a phone call at work (nightshift) from some guy who said he was going to be a resident at her facility and wanted to know some information about the place. The longer he talked, the more sexual the conversation became. Eventually she hung up but it freaked her out to the point she came home and woke me up in a panic and sobbing. Not a good way to wake up. There has also been a guy sighted outside the facility a couple times. Long story (it will get longer) the police are involved. And she has a G2C in her purse until her Glock 19 gets here. That was her decision but I supported it. She’s a good shot but needs practice for real life scenarios.

So last night at ~20:45 I’m in the garage having my daily energy drink and a cigarette before getting ready for work. I usually have the garage door open about a foot or so to circulate the air. This night was no different. I hear a vehicle pull into the drive and someone gets out and walks by the garage. I can see he’s wearing pull on work boots. Well, we have three kids but I’m not the father. The dads both wear the same style of boots. I figured one of them had shown up for various reasons. It’s not uncommon for them to come by but it is a little late. Regardless though, I get along great with the dads. So them being here doesn’t concern me. The boots are still standing by the garage and I hear a voice that doesn’t sound like one of them say “Well would you go get her for a minute”. So now I think it’s the one of the neighborhood dads looking for his kid. We have kids over all the time because we have a big trampoline and our dogs (Male Catahoula and a female Saint Dane) have 8 week old puppies. So of course we’re popular. But again, it’s late for kids to be over. So I decide to go see what’s going on. Walk into the kitchen where my girlfriend is making my lunch and asked what neighborhood kids are here. She turns and says no one. Red flag. About that time I hear the door open and hear a guy call out “Hey where are you” Red flag 2. I come out of the kitchen and see a man standing in my living room. Immediate threat assessment kind of like Robert Downy Jr in Sherlock Holmes: Older male, no weapons because I can see one hand is open and the other is mostly failing at holding his pants up, he’s wearing 3 pairs of glasses, open denim shirt revealing tabs still stuck to him from a recent ECG, not standing in an aggressive or elusive posture. Instantly I know this is a psych patient. But he is in my home and shouldn’t be. I’m heading towards him deciding what to do and asked in a command presence voice “can I help you!?” Just then I heard another man’s voice “Jimmy (real name withheld) you don’t live here!?” I look up and see a younger (early 30’s) deputy sheriff standing at my door with a look of horror in his face. “C’mon get out of there. Let’s go. I’m so sorry.”

Now the pieces are starting to come together. I’m no longer in defend/protect mode. We get the guy outside and I walk back in to let everyone know everything is alright. My girlfriend is FREAKED out. Our oldest is in her room balling. Middle and youngest are in their rooms with the door shut. I tell my girlfriend everything is ok. She’s not listening. Ok. I’m going back outside. Deputy drives away. Go back inside. Girlfriend has burnt my dinner all to hell. Oldest can still be heard balling. I’m going to be late for work (I don’t miss work) so I call and let them know. A few minutes goes by and there’s a knock at the door. It’s the deputy and a city officer. He had come back to apologize again, explain what happened, and offers to have me fill out a complaint. Knowing he’s a psych patient, I know the DA will never prosecute. I’m pissed at the situation because I know the officer should always make first contact when taking someone to a home they’ve never taken them to before. Especially if it’s a psych patient. But I also know from experience that psych patients can take a completely random object and make up a vague yet believable story about that object without missing a beat. Turns out, that’s exactly what happened.

Jimmy had gotten into a domestic with his mother. Apparently this happens a lot but the mother always refuses to press any charges. The deputy responds and upon refusal to press charges asks if there is anywhere he can take him for the night. Jimmy says he has a place he can stay so they load up and start driving. Jimmy gave him directions to our house. Didn’t drive around and randomly pick one. He told him what specific roads to take and which specific house. When they arrived here, the deputy inquired about the vehicles in the driveway. Jimmy instantly said one was his sisters and the other was her boyfriend Jeremy. He also said they had crazy dogs. Well, my Catahoula and St. Dane were barking like crazy. We have a lot of coyotes around because we live in a rural area so it’s not uncommon for them to bark at night. And they have puppies so they’re extra territorial. We have been keeping the puppies outside at night if the weather is nice, or we wake up to a mine field and small lakes each morning. After 8 weeks we’re tired of mine fields and lakes. And they’re big puppies so you can imagine. So the adult dogs were outside protecting the pups.

The deputy also offered to get me in contact with his supervisor if I wanted to file a complaint against him. I declined. I could have. And I would have been completely justified in doing so. But I declined.

Here’s why I declined and why I said it was a perfect storm.

1. Had my male been inside, he would have torn Jimmy apart. He’s 105lbs of solidness and has no fear. But he wasn’t and therefore didn’t.

2. Had I not had a history in psych and good threat assessment skills, I would have either grabbed my pistol (that was within 8’ of me) and possibly shot him or beaten him to a pulp. I was on my way to put hands on him when I heard and subsequently saw the deputy at the door. But I do have those attributes, and I did hear and see the deputy. So, I didn’t.

3. The deputy knew he screwed up. And he was genuinely remorseful. But had I or my dog engaged Jimmy, there would be no way to avoid the report of injury to Jimmy and possible firing of this deputy. As it stood, no one was hurt. The females in the house were freaked out. But no injuries. So I saw this as a teachable moment for the younger deputy about dealing with psych patients and following procedure when taking someone to a residence. I’m still debating about calling the actual sheriff and having a meeting with him. Not to get the deputy in trouble. But because I know how perfect this storm was and how easily this could have been bad for everyone. And so he could use this as a lesson for his deputies in the future.

4. I am the grandson, son, brother, and best friend of police officers. I know how stressful the job can be. Especially today. And I don’t want someone’s career ended over a mistake that didn’t end in injury when it could instead be used as a valuable lesson. We’re all human.

But seriously, what are the odds? What are the odds my girlfriend gets these calls, has someone around her facility, that I have the background in psych and threat assessment skills, that my dogs were outside, that a psych patient comes in my house, delivered by a deputy, and that the deputy calls out at just the right moment, and that no one was hurt, or worse?
G-d gave you this experience to use to teach others. Which you are doing by posting it here. And I likewise encourage you to meet with the sheriff as you mentioned.

NOTE: Usually members are advised not to post HD experiences for reasons I think are in a sticky, but in this case since you didn't have to physically engage I personally think it's different, there doesn't seem to be any chance of you being prosecuted for anything so no worries about unwitting self-incrimination.
 
What is gibberish is the idea that a citizen may employ deadly force because someone has done something, rather than to prevent certain actions when immediately necessary.
Seems to me that any reasonable person would fear much more for his or her life when the person who already entered the home without permission just shot the family pet.
 
but in this case since you didn't have to physically engage I personally think it's different, there doesn't seem to be any chance of you being prosecuted for anything so no worries about unwitting self-incrimination.
Physical engagement would not be necessary to result in difficulty.

Threats, or the display or even the mention of any kind of weapon, could suffice.

I agree that there seems to be little problem in the "this happened to me " story, but that's a guess. I've seen very innocuous-seeming things turn into

Should the poster ever get into a scrape in the future, or should his dog cause any injuries, there are statements in the tread that could, taken in isolation and out of context (and that's the way it's done), be used by a plaintiff or a prosecutor to try to show a predisposition for violence, or for not properly controlling an animal.. I would not try to quantify that risk. Let's hope that that day never comes.

The obvious lesson here, I think, and the OP knows this, is to try to avoid situations that could lead to finding a man standing in the living room. That can be a terrible shock.

It would be scary enough to have the electrician's assistant bring parts for a job next door come into your house instead.
 
Seems to me that any reasonable person would fear much more for his or her life when the person who already entered the home without permission just shot the family pet
And so the defense would surely try to argue.

Evidence of knowledge that the dog had been attacking someone and had been shot because of that would be very damaging, however.
 
Didn't read past the OP but I have to wonder how a stranger got in your home.

I live pretty rural but we still keep cars and the doors to the house locked, all the time.

If I walked around the corner of my house to find a stranger there (unlikely given our security and location) they are at a minimum getting held at gun point. Yes, I ALWAYS have a gun on me.

Personally I would reevaluate your HD barriers/practices.

That being said, given what actually happened you certainly got lucky. Glad things worked out for you.
 
Evidence of knowledge that the dog had been attacking someone and had been shot because of that would be very damaging, however.
How would evidence that a dog, protecting his family from an intruder, inside the home, be damaging in the scenario? It’s kind of what dogs were bred to do. Hunt, protect, attack (war). If you would fight to protect your home and family, it’s not unreasonable that an animal bred for that purpose would do the same.
 
G-d gave you this experience to use to teach others. Which you are doing by posting it here. And I likewise encourage you to meet with the sheriff as you mentioned.

NOTE: Usually members are advised not to post HD experiences for reasons I think are in a sticky, but in this case since you didn't have to physically engage I personally think it's different, there doesn't seem to be any chance of you being prosecuted for anything so no worries about unwitting self-incrimination.
Had this been an invasion with use of force, I would not have posted. I know how attorneys work. Each side has a job to do. And sometimes it’s ugly work. It’s just the nature of the beast.
 
How would evidence that a dog, protecting his family from an intruder, inside the home, be damaging in the scenario?
It would pertain to the argument that the deputy who had shot the dog was justified in doing so, and that a reasonable person would not have believed the deputy to have constituted a threat.

It’s kind of what dogs were bred to do. Hunt, protect, attack (war). If you would fight to protect your home and family, it’s not unreasonable that an animal bred for that purpose would do the same.
Society and the law take a very dim view of dogs that bite people, indoors or out. Owners are responsible for controlling dogs, and for not owning dangerous ones.

Where I live, a dog is allowed on and only one minor bite before it is destroyed. Ans yes, one would expect a fog to try to get at a delivery person at the front door.

Had the dog interfered wit a violet attacker and saved the family, the dog might be a hero, but that was not the scenario described
 
It would pertain to the argument that the deputy who had shot the dog was justified in doing so, and that a reasonable person would not have believed the deputy to have constituted a threat.
I don’t disagree that the deputy shooting my dog under the described scenario would have been justified. But under the described scenario, remember, there’s a 12’ entry way (fatal funnel) from the front door to my living room. I see my dog attacking Jimmy, hear the gunshot, and my dog falls. I cannot see the front door. From where I’m standing, I can see maybe 3’ of the opposing entry way hall I’m facing while I’m looking at Jimmy. I think I haven’t described the layout of the house as well as I could have because I didn’t anticipate this discussion. I’m going to take a picture and set this up (crudely) like an attorney would for presentation.
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Im sure there’s something in the sticky about posting the inside of your house, but I need this to be as accurate I can. I could draw it. But if I was an artist, I wouldn’t be a nurse.

Ok. So in the picture, the light blue stripe represents the kitchen where I was when I heard Jimmy call out. The yellow stripe is the bedroom with my pistol just inside the door. The picture was taken from the laundry room which also has a door just inside it going into the garage. The “X” is where I was standing when I first saw Jimmy, the arrow pointing down is approx where Jimmy was standing. Maybe a little to the right. The arrow pointing left is the start of the 12’ entry way to the front door. As you can see, I cannot see the front door. Not even close. The deputy was standing outside the front door. So if we (we kind of have to) play this scenario from the positions it actually played out, you can clearly see how I wouldn’t know where the shot came from. And I also wouldn’t be able to identify that deputy. I didn’t even see the deputy until I was within arms reach of Jimmy. Also, you have to remember another key element in the defense...I clearly stated that we have kids in and out all the time. And since my dog hasn’t attacked any of the kids, he knows who is supposed to be there and who isn’t. He’s not a vicious dog. He’s territorial and protective. He doesn’t have the propensity for aggression. He has the propensity to protect his home. It’s a character trait of the breed. And there’s a difference between aggression and protection.
 
If I walked around the corner of my house to find a stranger there (unlikely given our security and location) they are at a minimum getting held at gun point.
I really don't think it prudent to try to detain anyone. That has been discussed here at grat length
 
Keep doors locked at all times and train children to not open for strangers... ever.

No matter where you are, or what your perceived skills.... the front door is a critical line of defense.

I'm glad all ended well and respect and appreciate your decision not to go all Kathy on the officers.
 
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