Mech is saying what has been said over and over in the past - your defense starts at the perimeter.
Just how did the perps decide on you anyway? Are you offensively extravagant in your wealth? Did you make the #1 mistake of home intrusion statistics, offend your local drug supplier by stealing his merchandise and going into competition? Or, the #2 reason, shelter a manipulative female trying to escape a beater boy friend who is looking forward to teaching you your place (at his feet broken and bleeding?)
But, no, we never discuss the reasons you got picked, how they approached the house with no warning at all, got thru your front door without making sound, walked thru a completely unfamiliar house without making a sound, to creep into your bedroom and stick A KNIFE AGAINST YOUR THROAT!
Yeah, sure. Most intrusions start when the homeowner OPENS THE DOOR. We let them in.
Got that?
In most cases an innocent family is endangered because they innocently open the door to answer who's outside.
Seems to me we should be talking about effectively preventing the whole thing, what preemptive tactics to use, etc etc etc. Nope - gun forum.
We only talk about how big a bullet to use, never about the common sense items that precede needing it. We accept complete failure of our outer defenses and have no plan other that reactive force - grab a gun and start blasting away.
We deliberately discuss and plan for complete failure, and expect to still prevail with our last ditch efforts. With no training or practice whatsoever.
What, you run drills and walk thrus on response actions after you opened the door? Isn't that kind of like what the anti gunners tell us - go about disarmed, but if a terrorist stands up in the mall and starts shooting, you just need to man up and "stop them."
I don't see much difference in the levels of logical thought with either.
We need to spend less time worrying about what sized bullet and whether it might penetrate a wall. I can say that for the most part, they ALL do, the perps will show up with ammo they certainly hope does, and the SWAT team in response doesn't have magic bullets that stop instantly to prevent accidentally shooting you, your wife, and kids. That stuff doesn't exist. If you believe it does - please post a link so we can harass the maker about his iron clad absolute guarantee it can't kill the innocent.
Not happening.
Most discussion on gun forums about defending the home is just a new twist on fantasy thread posting and it's no different than zombies or the end of the world as we know it. Add, lately, Martial Law. Fearmongering as entertainment.
When you have actually trained and done the job, it's something a lot more complicated.