Things are ever changing and evolving. I mentioned this before, about 8 or 9 years ago I was buying a lot if guns, it was right before we got married. We were also saving money to buy a hone and start a family. On a Monday I brought home a 6" gp100, when I was at the gun store I put money down on a mk3 comp. target which came hone Friday of that same week. That was the last straw, she got upset, my wife isn't a fighter, she's a cryer . she told me that I can't keep doing that and I needed to get serious about not spending money on guns, I already had 20 something at that point and so to settle her I promised that I would limit my gun purchases to one per year. Yeah, one. Until we bought a home and were comfortable enough to renegotiate .
I think you can see where this is going...
We bought our house, I got a better job and we needed to furnish the place, replace her car, on and on. So one per year.
Then the kids were came along, more of the same. We need to save for the kids future , retirement and on and on. So yeah, one per year still stands.
I can trade around or barter but as far as plunking down cash money , just one.
I don't lie to my wife or anyone else, I don't like lies. But this darn deal I made a decade ago remains, only made that deal to shut down a situation that would have settled down a short time on its own. I regret that deal.
I have bought more than one gun per year at times but I'm straight forward about it, I smooth it over like a pro - when I walk in the house with something I wasn't supposed to buy I'll exclaim "honey, look what I found in a dumpster!" She knows the deal and will roll her eyes and give me the look but it's generally ok as long as I remain reasonable . this year I have bought 2, a freedom arms 83 that I got used from a buddy for a great price, so when I decided to get a 77/357 in March I bought it and when I brought it home I tactfully told her I bought it with the extra money I saved by buying the FA used, that worked but I've got to good for the remainder of 2020, another would push her limits.
Come January 2021 I'll have everything lined up for my next one. I really don't need another gun but you know how it goes. I still really want a bfr and have considered selling something to get one but I can wait, I hate selling my guns. I quit buying guns I don't love a few years ago so nothing I want is cheap.
Be careful of the deals you make, sometimes they last FOREVER.