MachIVshooter
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Face it, if you have to shoot someone (even if they start it) you are facing a mountain of potentially expensive problems. Possible legal trouble and more than likely a civil suit. Even if you win the civil suit, your lawyer won't be cheap.
I'm most certainly not emphasizing the escalation of a situation, especially not to that point. Obviously, there is a need to evaluate every situation and decide if there can be any room between saying nothing and going to defcon one. In most cases, there's lots of medium.
There are a great many things that can be said to a rude invidual to let them know that their behavior is duly noted and not appreciated, without becoming an aggressor. When that individual behaves in such capacity, you can use some level of "hey, that was uncalled for. Why don't you apologize to (victim of said beahvior)". You don't have to say "HEY! *******! Don't F*%$ing talk to him/her that way or I'll tune you up!". Obviously, the latter is not only going to create a very hostile situation, but the point of your intervention will be lost in the angry exchange.
On that note, I'm not even bringing road rage into this thread. There is no safe, peaceful way to deal with rude behavior in vehicles, as people instantly become hostile, aggressive and invincible behind the wheel, and the danger level for everyone in the vicinity starts out far higher than any exchange between pedestrians. I do not participate in road rage.
So what this taught me, is that people have expectations or your behavior that might (or might not) be reasonable from you. Depending on how you react to this, can make you appear belligerent, or submissive. Being polite, and having "good manners" is cultural, as shown my my story
You make some excellent points, Gungnir, but the types of behavior I'm referring to are pretty much universally unacceptable, regardless of cultural nuances. We're not talking about subtle things that might be interpreted as impolite. This thread is in regard to blatently rude behavior that is indentifiable through language and culture barriers. You know the type I mean.
Keep the replies coming, guys (and gals). I want to hear more about what everyone thinks on this particular aspect of our contemporary society.