http://www.stentorian.com/2ndamend/leaflets/armed.html
Don't let him goad you too much fume... If he has a smile on his face thats a good thing, no matter how much it may irk you.
Soon, the little eagle will be leaving the big eagles nest, as it should be. Maybe not soon enough for you... or him, but soon.
www.thearmedcitizen.com has a good editorial (right side, scroll down a bit, updated 1/04) worthy of a read.
Statistics? What was Mark Twain's comments about, "There are liars, damn liars and those who use statistics"?
A. Per the first link... You ARE a RESPONSIBLE person! Period.
B. Enough people (citizens) use a firearm to thwart crime against themselves annually to make it a worthwhile effort... up to 2.5 million instances a year (if you buy that figure) in a country with a pop. of 280 million. Even half that number isn't a blip on anyones screen, especially if its your screen.
C. Know that if you had to, you could and would, I repeat, WOULD, be able to save your father and mother's life if Mr BG walked in the door (statistically an impossibility until you read the newspapers) today... or die trying. (And your father could do what? He'd still probably die trying, tho, ya gotta give him that.)
D. Some people are not meant to be sheepdogs, even if they are fathers... statistically speaking very few of dad's today are armed sheepdogs, present company excepted.
E. The weapon is the mind. A handgun is just a tool; one of many available to a thinking, responsible sheepdog.
'Twere it me, I'd sandbag him and just blatantly agree with everything he said and say things like, "Yep", "Sure", "You're right again, of course", "What WAS I thinking?"... SMILING ALL THE WHILE, until he realized that all the fun had gone out of firing you up. He'll know the truth of the matter, as will you.
Just remember, that when the bad guys of the world lay down their arms first... you'll still keep yours, because we both (all) know that the bad guys of the world will never lay down their weapons or stop their evil ways.
And some day, my dear fumegator, when you have kids... oh when you have kids...
look back at the really great times and things your father taught you and shared with you and let these negative moments lie fallow.
Please.
The next thing you know you'll be pushing 50 like some of us.
Till then, stay alert, stay alive and take time to smell the roses now and then (carefully checking your six as you do) and remember the old adage concerning the 2 Rules of Life:
1. Don't sweat the small stuff. and
2. Its ALL small stuff.
Oh yeah, one of my dear old Dad's adages comes to mind, "I'd rather have it and not need it..." See? Dad's come in all types. Mine is a "Yellow Dog Democrat" who carries. Go figure.