BHPshooter
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Yes, it's me again...
Now, like I said at the end of my last "dad" thread, I wasn't going to (nor had I ever) bring up anything regarding carry or gun rights.
I was outside fixing my truck, when I came in to get warm. My Dad (Mom was there too, contributing) tells me, "It's a good thing that you're not still at USU. They've banned guns on campus for everybody but police."
"Yeah, so?"
"I just thought you'd like to know that they're like U of U, and the LDS church, and..." on and on and on he went, "... It's the wave of the future."
Just *** is that supposed to mean? I thought.
Then he says, "I don't understand why that matters to you."
"You don't understand? Do you understand that BGs don't care what the law is? That they'll take a gun someplace regardless that "the law" says they can't have one?"
My Mom: "So you're saying that you hope that there's someone there with a CCP to fight the BG?"
"Yeah."
My Dad sighs, gives me that patronizing, $#!t-eating grin and says, "statistically, do you know how unlikely it is for you to ever need a gun?"
"Yeah. Statistics look good on paper, but they don't mean much when it happens to you."
He then brought up how likely I am to die in a car crash.
I countered with an observation that I have been driving or riding in cars for 20 years, and never been involved in a real accident, trying to prove that statistics for driving accidents (involving death) haven't affected me.
Somehow, he started in on CCW. I don't remember how we got there, but he said "Do you know what having a Concealed Carry Permit is about? Ego. Everybody that has one is an egotistical pig. You'll never convince me otherwise."
Ha! I've got him now. "What about John?" I asked, mentioning his good friend from Idaho.
"He doesn't have a carry permit."
"Yeah he does, he showed it to me the last time he visited."
"But he doesn't carry."
*** difference does that make? "So you're saying that by getting a CCP and carrying, you instantly turn into an egotistical pig?"
He said, "The only people that get them are egotistical pigs."
"You could go get one, and would that make you a pig?"
Him: "But I'm not going to get one... Why does all of this agitate you so bad? That's not healthy." All the while, the same $#!t-eating grin.
I said, "I get agitated when people give me that look and treat me like a psychopath." At that point, I stormed out to finish my automotive chore.
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Alright, some points:
What am I supposed to do with someone so dense and so stubborn?
How did I become so pro-gun when my Dad is so... screwed up?
Your comments... again? Please? If nothing else, PLEASE help me cope.
Wes :banghead:
P.S. Dear God, please help me to get that job and be able to move out of this place. Amen.
Now, like I said at the end of my last "dad" thread, I wasn't going to (nor had I ever) bring up anything regarding carry or gun rights.
I was outside fixing my truck, when I came in to get warm. My Dad (Mom was there too, contributing) tells me, "It's a good thing that you're not still at USU. They've banned guns on campus for everybody but police."
"Yeah, so?"
"I just thought you'd like to know that they're like U of U, and the LDS church, and..." on and on and on he went, "... It's the wave of the future."
Just *** is that supposed to mean? I thought.
Then he says, "I don't understand why that matters to you."
"You don't understand? Do you understand that BGs don't care what the law is? That they'll take a gun someplace regardless that "the law" says they can't have one?"
My Mom: "So you're saying that you hope that there's someone there with a CCP to fight the BG?"
"Yeah."
My Dad sighs, gives me that patronizing, $#!t-eating grin and says, "statistically, do you know how unlikely it is for you to ever need a gun?"
"Yeah. Statistics look good on paper, but they don't mean much when it happens to you."
He then brought up how likely I am to die in a car crash.
I countered with an observation that I have been driving or riding in cars for 20 years, and never been involved in a real accident, trying to prove that statistics for driving accidents (involving death) haven't affected me.
Somehow, he started in on CCW. I don't remember how we got there, but he said "Do you know what having a Concealed Carry Permit is about? Ego. Everybody that has one is an egotistical pig. You'll never convince me otherwise."
Ha! I've got him now. "What about John?" I asked, mentioning his good friend from Idaho.
"He doesn't have a carry permit."
"Yeah he does, he showed it to me the last time he visited."
"But he doesn't carry."
*** difference does that make? "So you're saying that by getting a CCP and carrying, you instantly turn into an egotistical pig?"
He said, "The only people that get them are egotistical pigs."
"You could go get one, and would that make you a pig?"
Him: "But I'm not going to get one... Why does all of this agitate you so bad? That's not healthy." All the while, the same $#!t-eating grin.
I said, "I get agitated when people give me that look and treat me like a psychopath." At that point, I stormed out to finish my automotive chore.
**************
Alright, some points:
- I never bring these subjects up, he does.
- He, just like my little brother, want me to A) get agitated, or B) give up and not argue, thereby making him feel superior.
- My Dad, as it seems now, is for gun-ownership -- but not carry, self-defense, or gun use.
What am I supposed to do with someone so dense and so stubborn?
How did I become so pro-gun when my Dad is so... screwed up?
Your comments... again? Please? If nothing else, PLEASE help me cope.
Wes :banghead:
P.S. Dear God, please help me to get that job and be able to move out of this place. Amen.