This happened about 2 years ago. It was around 8pm or so and me, my sister, and my mom went to go get some groceries. As usual, I quickly got bored, and went to hang out in the magazine isle for a bit, browsing through the latest issues of Soldier of Fortune and Popular Mechanics, and well as Guns and Ammo and EGM (yeah, I'm a speed reader), and like 30 minutes later, I go back and meet up with my mom and sister, and go out, pay, etc. Nothing unusual yet. The store itself was quiet, with only one or two people in it at the time. So we leave after paying.
It was raining pretty heavy at the time so I volunteered to go get the car so that my mom and sis wouldn't get wet. I like walking in the rain I guess. So I pop open an umbrella, and grab my car keys. I make a habit to avoid carrying anything in my right hand (my fighting hand), but that night I had my umbrella in my right, and car keys on the left. So there I was, walking to the car in an otherwise deserted parking lot, thinking about how cold Florida rain feels, and the cynic in me makes a wise remark about the "Sunshine" state... Out of the corner of my eye, I see this guy leaning against the wall. He's like 100 feet away, but he's eyeballing me. I get that gut feeling that's he's up to no good. I mean who stands in the rain staring at people?
2 seconds later he's walking towards me. I mean right at me. He seemed to be going out of his way to come near me, so the first thought in my head is this guy wants to dance... I make it a habit to have at the very least a knife with me at all times. Unless I'm going to an airport, or a city hall, or somewhere with metal detectors, I will always have at least a blade on me, sometimes two depending on the area I'll be in. I make it a point not to be an easy victim, although at the time I was only 19 and did not have any firearms.
So as he's walking at me, I notice he puts his hand in his pocket. I think he'll be on me in 5 seconds. At this time I figured I had 3 options. 1 stop, turn around, walk away. 2 Play it cool and keep walking towards the car. 3, stab first, ask questions later. Option 1 means I turn my back on a threat. It also means I'll lead him in the direction of my mom and sister. Always a bad idea. Option 3 is not a good option because I don't know if he's just some guy trying to ask for directions or something... So I go for option 2. Once he gets within 20 feet of me he asks me where I'm going. I say, "to my car". He stops and looks at me. He stares hard. Hand still in his pocket. I keep walking. I'm thinking to myself that I can take this guy out so long as he doesn't pull a gun on me. If he pulls a gun on me, I need to be within arms reach of him to stand a chance. He's a 95 LBs crackhead. I'm 5'10, 155 lbs... A quick punch to the throat will end it. He follows me for like 3-4 feet, and then he awkwardly says "Have a good night". I say "you too" and I get in the car. I notice he's heading right to my mom and sister. At this time I figure things are going south fast. He's making a bee line for them, and I got maybe 30 seconds to get there. I'm thinking "****!... I wish my mom had decided to buy that .38 she wanted..." So I get in the car, open the knife, and place in in my waist band for quick access. Turn on the engine, and drive right up to where he is, which happens to be 6 feet away from where my mom and sister are standing.
He saw me and he backed away, and went to some vending machines a little bit farther off and continued staring. We put the bags in the trunk and drove off. Hopefully he didn't attack anyone that night, but trust me when I tell you, that guy was up to no good. It's a gut feeling that I know is right. I'm glad nothing happened, and that we're all safe, but to me this proves to me why we need to protect ourselves from stuff like this. We all need to take steps to become harder victims.
Thankfully that is the only time I have ever felt directly threatened, and I hope it'll be the last, although I am better prepared this time around.