The reality of having a loaded gun pointed at you is only negotiable by the person whom it is pointed at, I got lucky on more than one occasion and talked my way out of possibly being shot, by engaging the guy in conversation, it's psycological more than anything else, "if you are unarmed as I was two times in my youth, you have no other weapon than your mouth.
If you can get some type of conversation started, you are less likely to be killed. I heard one guy say to the other, "this guy ain't giving us ****" "pardon the language, but that is what he said. Followed by, either let's kill him and the girl, or let's get out of here now, we already wasted too much time.
This is what I as talking about when I say there is no way in hell that I will ever again leave this to chance, depending upon my whitt and his mood, to determine when I and my loved one meet our maker. I would have no qualms about drawing and moving at the same time if I got that feeling crawling up my back that I may be dead in a few seconds. At that point you realy have nothing to lose, because you would feel pretty stupid at the pearly gates when St Peter says , "so what happened" , you did have a gun.
Any number of things can go wrong in your "plan" and it's subject to change, at any moment in time, only you will have the choice as to if you pull or don't pull. In my experience only "you" can make that call, and only you will be to blame for what occurs after.
People often say I don't know what I would do if something like that happened to me, or those who never had an incident like that, are so sure of exactly what their plan is that it's a waste of time trying to even discuss it.
I do so here because I chose to, but not in my social circle, they wouldn't understand at all. No one can tell you what you should or shouldn't do, or how you should carry, that's up to you, in life we try to learn from others who have experienced things that we have not. And everyone is not created equal, some freeze up, others can compartmentaize things and lock them in a box, only take them out when necessary, You decide what is best for you. I made my decision years ago through incidents that influenced my thinking differently than most folks except people who have been through horrible situatiions and somehow lived through them. Just because something worked on Monday, doesn't mean the exact same thing will work again on Tuesday, so you need to be keyed into your individual situation and know your limitations. It's going to be different for everyone.
And no , I was not in Law enforcement, but did have a sought after NYC carry permit, for 23 years, because I carried what was considered large amounts of cash, "before credit cards and checks were mainstream. So I made night deposits, took home cash sometimes, and picked up and dropped off cash to our 5 locations, thus they gave me a Carry permit in 72, now I believe "last I checked you need to carry 50 thousand per day in cash, to even be considered, since everyone uses plastic now, even the busiest places don't have that much cash around, hell I have seen banks not able to cash checks for a car purchase of 10 grand.
So I was a target after the first time, the incident I spoke to earlier, which was wrong place wrong time, and could have happened to whoever was parked there. But the scary thing about that one was that it was a busy street and dozens of people entering the train station which I was parked near, saw what was happening, and just put their head down and kept walking. And since cell phones were pretty much non exhistant then, no one called the police. My friend was waiting outside an hour wodering where I had gone. So it's up to all of us to decide what's right for us, and what we actually have the capability to pull off, and sometimes you just can't know unless you expeuience something for yourself, "which I don't wish on anyone".
So take it with a grain of salt when anyone tells you what you should do, and realize it happens so fast, you have no time to plan what you would do. Instinct takes over,and your ability to read people and hopefully do it well enough to survive. That's what it's all about, surviving. Sorry for the speech.