Ivy Mike
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The setting is a relatively quiet urban neighborhood. Tract homes right near several schools.
I moved in about a year ago. For the last few months my neighbor (a ~60 year old man with mental problems) has been leaving things on my doorstep. At first it would be a pizza or some flowers. Always for someone named Debbie. Of course, there is no one by that name living here. However, a more recent development has been the old man actually coming to the door and demanding to see this Debbie.
Now obviously I've told him to leave and he simply starts getting upset. Usually this is solved by closing the door and locking it. He shouts and then walks off. However, a month ago, he actually tried to get into the house while I was out of town and my younger sister was home. She wisely grabbed the shotgun and called the police. The police came and had the old man taken away for psych evaluation.
Well recently he has come back a few more times and the police have been out twice. Each time they tell me that because he isn't threatening harm to himself or others, they can't do anything about it. The neighbor has made verbal threats of physical violence although I am larger, younger, stronger and more trained than he is. He doesn't seem to pose a real threat in my judgement. This is where I am having a problem.
So my question is how do I go about dealing with this old man? He doesn't appear to pose a serious threat to me. I can handle him in a fight and should he ever get in the house, I am equipped to deal with him and understand my local laws quite well regarding defense against intruders.
I guess I am just looking for opinions on how to solve my issue with the old man without actually hurting him or being hurt myself.
I moved in about a year ago. For the last few months my neighbor (a ~60 year old man with mental problems) has been leaving things on my doorstep. At first it would be a pizza or some flowers. Always for someone named Debbie. Of course, there is no one by that name living here. However, a more recent development has been the old man actually coming to the door and demanding to see this Debbie.
Now obviously I've told him to leave and he simply starts getting upset. Usually this is solved by closing the door and locking it. He shouts and then walks off. However, a month ago, he actually tried to get into the house while I was out of town and my younger sister was home. She wisely grabbed the shotgun and called the police. The police came and had the old man taken away for psych evaluation.
Well recently he has come back a few more times and the police have been out twice. Each time they tell me that because he isn't threatening harm to himself or others, they can't do anything about it. The neighbor has made verbal threats of physical violence although I am larger, younger, stronger and more trained than he is. He doesn't seem to pose a real threat in my judgement. This is where I am having a problem.
So my question is how do I go about dealing with this old man? He doesn't appear to pose a serious threat to me. I can handle him in a fight and should he ever get in the house, I am equipped to deal with him and understand my local laws quite well regarding defense against intruders.
I guess I am just looking for opinions on how to solve my issue with the old man without actually hurting him or being hurt myself.