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Darth Ruger

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Several months ago, my daughter (17) was chased by a neighbor's dog. Pretty sure it was a Rottweiler. She was working in the yard out front when it chased her. She screamed and it stopped. My sister-in-law was here at the time and they went to talk to the owner. They got a lukewarm response to say the least. The lady was unresponsive and didn't seem to care much about what they were telling her.

This morning I and my two sons and my niece were attacked by this dog and another one. I got a good look at the closest one, obviously, and it was a Rott. Not sure about the other one, I was a little busy dealing with the closest one, but it looked very similar. I was going to see the doctor, about my ongoing back problem (injured my back on the job a year ago, still doing physical therapy and now getting spinal injections). When I go to the doctor for this reason, I don't have my carry gun on me, because the doctor will be examining my back. So I have it in the holster (SmartCarry) in a book bag/day pack over my shoulder. The zipper on this bag is a little hard to work, and would be even more difficult if under attack. I was getting the three kids in the car when I heard barking. I looked up and these two dogs were running straight at us from across the street, snarling and barking. They had to come through that house's back yard, then the front yard to come that way, because their owner lives in the house behind it on the other side of the block. I knew instantly it was the dog that chased my daughter several months ago, accompanied by another one.

I said to the kids "Get in the car! Get in the car!" I didn't have a chance to get to my gun, I was too busy trying to get my kids in the car. I thought my niece was all the way in so I slammed the door behind her, but her foot was in the way and it wedged her foot under the side of the seat, stopping me from closing the door at all. My boys barely got inside in time. My gun was not an option at this point. I figured I would be taking on both of these dogs single-handed at any moment. I looked up again and the Rott (closest to me) had stopped about two feet from me and was barking and snarling. The other one was a little farther away. I finally got the door closed. Then my next reaction was to raise my arms and yell at the Rott. This made him jump back, and it would have taken too long to fiddle with my day pack, so I did it again and walked around to the other side of the car to get in. Then he started to run around to come after me again, but I yelled again and that stopped him. I got in the car and we left.

If I had quicker access to my gun, I would have shot the Rott. It was charging straight at me and I had the kids to worry about. I suppose both I and the dogs are lucky they stopped. If they didn't stop, they would have torn me up, but I would have killed them.

After I was driving a bit, I was thinking about this, and that's when my heart started to beat faster (funny how that happens, after the fact). It made me nervous that I knew I would have shot them if I could have, although I know I would have been justified.

Wait, it gets worse. After I got home from my appointment, I went over there to talk to the owner. She was in her front yard with one of her dogs. It wasn't a Rott, but nearly as big and was the same black/brown. I thought it must have been the one farther from me, as my attention was focused on the one two feet from me. I started to walk up their driveway, but the woman stopped me. She said "Stop! Don't come at me or he'll attack." I knew this was the dog. So I stopped and talked to the lady from a distance of about 30 feet as she held her dog. I told her that her two dogs attacked me and my kids earlier. She immediately started denying that they would ever do that. "They aren't those kind of dogs. They're just puppies." I said "Puppies that are this big?" as I put my hand above my knee. She said "Well, yeah, they're big dogs."

I tried to tell her what happened, but it was difficult. She kept interrupting me and denying her dogs would do something like that. But then she would flip-flop and apologize for it.

I tired to tell her that they charged us and only stopped when I yelled at them. She said "That's not possible. Yelling at them is what makes them charge. They'll leave you alone unless you come at them." I told her "That's exactly the opposite of what they did. I was getting my kids in the car when your dogs came charging at us from the neighbor's yard across the street. I did nothing to provoke them. They were so far away when they started charging that I didn't even see them at first. And yelling at them made them stop, not charge." Then she said "Well, I'm sorry they did that, sir."

She kept contradicting herself. She would say they wouldn't do something like that, then apologize for them doing it, like she was admitting they really would do it.

I told her this wasn't the first time. I told her about my daughter. She remembered her from when they went to talk to her about that incident. She tried to tell me that her dog chased my daughter because she yelled at the dog. Sorry, but my daughter isn't in the habit of going around yelling at strange dogs. She yelled because the dog was chasing her. Besides, she was in our front yard when this happened, and the dog's owner was nowhere to be seen, so how does she know what happened?

She admitted the dogs get out sometimes. I told her she needed to do whatever it takes to contain them, higher fence, stonger chain, whatever. By this point my voice was getting higher until I was almost yelling at her. I couldn't help it. I was calm at first, but I was getting pissed because she kept denying everything and then apologizing for everything, contradicting herself, and every time I tried to tell her something, I had to try three or four times to finish what I was saying because she kept interrupting me and either denying what I was saying or trying to justify the dogs' actions.

At one point I told her I almost shot her dogs because they charged us and I was afraid for my kids' lives. And I said next time I might. I know I shouldn't have said that, but you had to be there. I thought that I and maybe my kids could have been torn to pieces, and I was pissed that this woman didn't seem to give a damn. Just like when my daughter tried to talk to her before. I threatened to call animal control if she doesn't do something about those dogs. What happens when they get out again? Next time they might kill someone. I finally gave up and just walked away. I knew nothing was going to change, except that now I've probably started a feud.

They're trashy people. They let their dogs run loose a lot, they've got garbage and rusted cars in the yard. A garbage can had been knocked over, spilling hundreds of empty Budweiser cans all over the ground. I can just see her husband pounding on my door tonight, yelling at me for yelling at his wife.

We also have a side yard that runs down the side of the house, where a fence divides it from the back yard. My son told me he has been in the backyard before and see one of those dogs there in the side yard, with just the fence between them.

I called the county animal control for advice. I explained everything and all they could tell me is that it's my decision if I want to file a complaint. They said someone would come out and get a statement from me, then go talk to the owners, give them a warning if it's a first offense.

That seemed like it would accomplish nothing and only worsen the situation. They obviously can't control their dogs in the first place, since they get out a lot. And I can just imagine how bad it would get, i.e., "us vs. them." The lady at animal control said "Yeah, there's always the possbility it will start a 'neighborhood war'. " I don't know what to do next.

There's one other caveat. The fence that divides the backyard from the side yard is a very fragile lattice design. It has gotten very brittle from all the exposure over the years and is literally falling apart. My own dogs have gotten out several times. One is a black lab that is so docile (and stupid) that she must have a heart made of silly putty. The other is a Brittany Spaniel. He barks at everything that moves, but isn't the type to attack. A few weeks ago he did get out and was barking at some little kids down the street, who were on the other side of the fence in their yard, and made them cry. But he's just a barker. I'm working on getting the fence fixed right now, but the problem is, how does that look if I file a complaint about a neighbor's dogs? Then again, this was down the street on my side of the block, no place 'that lady' would ever see, and I'm certain she doesn't know about it.

From now on, I'll be watching for those dogs everytime I step out the door and I will always have my carry gun easily accessible. A couple of concerns: 1) My daughter has to walk around the corner and go by their house every day to get to the school bus stop (the bus stop is right in front of their house). 2) I work a part-time job on the weekends. My wife is home with the kids then, and they often go out to the store or whatever. What if this happens then, when I'm not there? My wife won't carry. She's pro-gun, but too afraid to carry one herself. Besides, I doubt if she could deal with the situation anyway, if it should happen. 3) Will filing a complaint do any good? Or just make matters worse?

Maybe I should just wait and see if her husband does anything tonight, then decide tomorrow. I'm not afraid of him (I've never even met him), but there's a strong possibility that they're the type of people that might turn this into a feud. I worry about the kids' safety, but will a simple warning accomplish anything? Will it only make life in this neighborhood hell for us, and nothing helpful be done about the dogs until they've killed someone?

I don't know what to do. Any advise?
 
I don't know what to do. Any advise?
Next time you encounter the dogs on your property, try to make friends with 'em by offering up a couple of pounds of ground beef, liberally seasoned with Ethylene Glycol. :evil:

Revenge fantasies aside, DO file a complaint. Do so EACH and EVERY time you encounter the dogs running loose. Get pics on the cell phone or digital camera if you can. You want to establish a paper trail and history of this problem. If the husband becomes abusive, file complaints on HIM with the police. If at all possible, exercise due diligence of trying to work w/in the system before you are pressed to work outside it.
 
report to the police and next time they are in your yard will be thier last time.
Do not wait for someone to get hurt !!!!! they have had two warnings already make that very clear.
 
I was thinking what Sindawe said. Get a paper trail established so that if you do have to shoot the dogs one day, you'll have plenty of proof that they were a threat in case the owners start trouble. Stay safe.
 
Make a report to both animal control and you local police. Animal control so tha tthe dogs can be collected and the police for the legal ramifications of failure to control a domestic pet.
 
Your land, your rules. Next time they cross the boundry line, have the AK at the ready. I figure one 30 round mag will fix all your stray nutjob dog problems for good.
 
I'd fix my own fence, making very sure my dogs never do get out (she no doubt thinks hers are as harmless as you think yours are), and at the same time file the complaint with Animal Control.

If the dogs come at you two weeks from now, and you shoot one or both in defense of your life, are you going to want that complaint to have been filed, or not?
 
Depending on where you live, there may be laws that could solve your problems. Where I live, after the imposition of fines proves less than effective, dogs are confiscated when owners allow them to repetitively run around, and certainly when a dog attacks a person in my city, the dog is taken away and "destroyed". The problem all to often is that animal control guys just don't feel like telling you your rights because it translates into work for them to do.
 
I had a similiar instance with a neighbor's dog and my (at the time) 4 year old. I was p****d! I drug the dog by the collar some 2 blocks to the owner's home. The parents blew it off and blamed it on their teenage son who seemed to care even less. I too said a little too much. Told them IF there was a next time, I'd return the dog in a box.
Just keep your guard up, document everything you can and hopefully animal control/police can take care of the dogs before anything else happens.
 
I can't tell you what you should do, but I can tell you what I'd do.

1. First, fix your fence.

2. Call your local animal control or the police and file a complaint.

3. Talk to your neighbors and other people in the community. If you've had bad experiences with the dogs, the odds are good that they have too. If they have, ask them to call and complain as well. These things carry more weight when it's a whole neighborhood instead of just "one guy with an axe to grind".

4. Once those complaints about violent and aggressive behavior are on record, the next time those dogs are acting aggressive and trespass on your property, shoot them - just make absolutely certain they're on your property when it happens. Letting one or both of them nibble on you a little bit first might not be a bad idea. :)
 
There are three issues here, one which I think you figured out already.

1. A gun that cannot be retrieved under sudden duress is a paperweight. Find a better solution.

2. You need to file a report and start a paper trail, especially after you told her you'd kill her dogs. I know in the realm of normal folks it seems okay, but all she's gonna remember when the police interview her over her dead dogs is that you said you'd "kill her dogs" and forget all the other things you said.

3. Fix your fence. You might think your dogs are silly, harmless or just barkers, but there's one simple test to tell if your dog bites...does he have teeth? Then he bites. You have your own issues to worry about.

  • Find a better carry solution for those off-times.
  • File all the reports you can
  • Fix your fence and know that your dogs bite the same as any others, all it takes is the proper motivation, and sometimes that ain't what makes sense to us human folk.
 
Bad deal, especially w/ kids.
I had a similar problem w/ my neighbor's dogs. Called the sheriff, he said to shoot,but I'd be on my own afterwards (lawsuit for killing" innocent" pitbulls?)
Every time I went out, I carried my 12ga. Neighbors got the message I would shoot their dogs and kept them confined.
Bad dogs are too serious around young kids to mess around.:cuss:
John
 
Absolutely file a complaint. Having the complaint on file provides a firm paper justification that the dogs were previously established as a threat if you have to defend yourself against one or more.
 
Okay, sounds like good advice. Having other people's perspective helps. I'll get on it. Thanks.
 
Not sure if this would be legal, but if you think your daughter is old enough (if it is the 17 year old, I'd say she's old enough by a couple of years) you could send OC with her for the walk to the bus stop. I have my doubts about her having it when she is actually at school, but maybe you could work something out with the teacher where she turns it in when she gets there and gets it back before she leaves. Better yet, just have her be discreet about it. Same goes for your wife, get her OC. I suspect liability is not nearly as big a deal when the animal recovers. I'd definitely file the complaints, fix the fence, and all that, but I'd still want everyone to have a backup.
 
do what the others said!

file the complaint.
fix the fence.
get a paper trail going in case you have to shoot the dog, there will be a reason, or previous incodent that was recorded.
and call the bus company, talk to them telling them your story how there are two dogs that are mean, and do attack. tell them you filed a complaing with the animal control service, and see if you can get the pick up/ drop off stop moved to a safer location. benefiting all the kids that use that stop!


good luck

if all else fails.... remember S.S.S. shoot, shovel, and shut up!

or poison them!
 
You have gotten plenty of good advise but here is my 2 cents worth. I was kinda on the other side of the fence (so to speak) in a similar situation. Had a black lab/german shep mix that was very protective of my kids and property. A neighborhood kid came into the back yard uninvited and Harley took him down. Gave him a scratch on his stomach but no bites. His parents reported it to animal control. They came out and gave me a notice that my dog was now on file as a "potentialy dangerous dog". The next time my dog was reported he would be distroyed. After that I made good and sure our fences were locked and he couldn't get out and nobody could get in. Don't know if your animal control has any classifications like this but it really motivated me to control my dog.
 
if it was me, i'd talk to the neighbor first and let her know that, like her, you have dogs you care for (fix your fence) and wouldn't want to see anything happen to them. Find a way to slide in that people have, and will continue to, shoot dogs if they feel they are threatened and being attacked. Do this nicely and friendly, in such a manner as to make her think you're looking out for her and her dogs. If she is halfway intelligent, she'll appreciate you being nice about telling her that the next time her dogs get out and attempt to attack you that you're going to blow them away.....without actually telling her you're going to shoot her 'puppies'.
 
GOD I HATE THESE THREADS

Why is everyone's first reaction to starting shooting any dog that comes near them, barking. I'm not up to writing a monologue right now (See the other 100 dangerous dog threads I've replied to).

But, a couple quick thoughts...If the dog quit when you yelled at it you were probably NEVER in any danger...NONE, ZIP, ZILCH. If the dog was determined to bite you it would have, period.

Second, as far as having the kids run to the car...BAD IDEA, That's a REALLY good way to get bit, when you wouldn't have other wise, for 2 reasons:

1) it can trigger a "prey" reaction (often combined with "play" reaction), and the dog now gives chase.

2) If (like most of these dogs, everyone here thinks is so dangerous) doesn't have the confidence to fight you from the front, when you run, they now might have the confidence to bite. Ever heard the term "back biting"?

The best defence against dog bites, for both children and adults, is LEARN SOMETHING ABOUT DOG BEHAVIOR. We all learn and supposedly follow rules for gun safety, but are too lazy to learn the first thing about dealing w/ dogs. Now, you can say that dogs shouldn't be allowed to run loose, and you are right, up to a point...but accidents DO happen and occasionally dogs get loose, so you oughta know how to deal with them.

LET THE FLAMES BEGIN
 
Any dog can be a "potentially dangerous dog" especially to people who don't know how to act around dogs. Darth, I'm not saying that you don't know about dog, or that those dogs weren't a threat. However, you do need to look after your own dogs and property. As bnelson2943 said, even people breaking into your property can get your dogs introuble and as you saw with your Spaniel, even the nicest dog can appear threatning to someone who doesn't know dogs.

My friend has two pitbull terriers. These dogs are the biggest babies that you will ever meet, the most aggressive that they get is to jump up to try and lick you. When a stranger comes in the house, their barking is more like "A new friend is here!" However, do to the reputation that this breed has, my friend is extremely careful not to let the dogs get out. One instence of his dogs running up to play with a neighbor kid could be enough to have the dogs put down.

The point is, look after your dogs, especially if you are planning to throw stones at your neighbor. That being said, (as much as I love dogs) if those dogs are being aggressive and charging onto your property you have every right to shoot them. It is a pitty to kill a dog, but it is a greater pitty that the owner cannot take care of them properly.

My $.02
 
Dog scared you. You talked to neighbor so contact animal control/make report. I have faced down hundreds of (dangerous) animals. Only got bit once. (ok I was 10 at time so maybe that shouldn't count)
I have had dogs ATTEMPT to bit me. I knew that going in so wrapped arm with jacket and let them chew on it while I changed their mind. (don't count that as bite)
Most dogs are/when scared might bite. Do NOT run. (unless you have shelter close.)
I still recall I was in place I was supposed to be (Fed property) and a trained K-9 got away from (so called) handler and came at me. I FROZE with my arms out. (surrender) The handler is yelling at his dog to "stop/come back/heal/etc" (I wasn't injured so how could dog heal me?) :)
Anyway he asks me why I didn't run. (that really told me he was a IDIOT) I then showed him the open knife I had along my arm. His dog was DRT IF it attacked.
Running in your case (by car/doors open/kids) was a good choice for at least kids.
Shooting would not be great choice. HAving a baseball bat/2x4/broom handle more useful.
 
dfaugh- I agree with you 100%. Alot of people do not know the first thing about dog behavior including some dog owners.

Now back to the original post. The first thing you need to do is handle your own dog situation first. Your dogs need to be better controled before you can come down on other peoples dogs. Those kids that were scared by your dogs are feeling exactly the same way you do. In their eyes your dogs are dangerous and running around wild. Please do not take this as a flame. It is simply ment as eye opener. Not all people are dog people. Many have a unreasonable fear of dogs. If your dog is barking at people they may take it as an aggressive action even if you do not believe it is.

All of this said if a dog was indeed atacking my daughter there wouldbe one less dog in this world, and thats a fact.
 
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