I can relate to the 41 fans plight, being a 44 Spl. fan myself, but I think it has long since peaked, and it was more of a foothill than a peak to begin with. The early loads contributed to ambiguity, and it is sandwiched between the two most popular handgun chamberings, both of which offer the huge advantage of being able to handle two different cartridges, each.
The 41 does exactly what one would expect looking at the specs. It's bigger than the 357, so it kicks more, and you can't shoot 41 Specials in it. It's smaller than the 44, so less whomp, and "Wow" factor, and less recoil, but hey, they still have the 44 Spl.
If you like it enjoy it, but don't expect the bandwagon to get too crowded.