BobCat
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Sam Adams
Your wife's cousin sounds like all too many of my family and friends "in the Old Country" - i.e. back North. As, I must add, like *me* thirty-some years ago. Having grown up in a sheltered place and never having experienced anything worse than shouted insults, thrown stones, and an occasional bloody nose - I was *sure* that (a/o WWII) the nazis were all gone, there were no truly evil people left, so there was no one to legitimately shoot. Guns were only for cops and robbers...
Anyway, on the "threatening" part - I did not express it properly. People who appear "threatening" are, by definition, perceived as threats; and threats get neutralized. OTOH people who appear "formidable" are less likely to be messed with.
There is a distinction between someone who is prone to violence - and should be avoided or de-clawed - and someone who does not want any trouble, but if attacked, will turn the attacker's heart and lungs to hamburger with hollow points. Appearing to be the latter, without seeming like the former, is a challenge.
People talk about the "gun culture" and I ask "Which one?" There is the traditional gun culture, which stresses individual responsibility, safety, and the duty to protect - self, family, community, people. Having a gun means being a trusted member of the community, an adult, shouldering adult responsibilities, and with enough self-control not to flip out and start shooting people at the drop of a hat (or insult).
OTOH there is the "popular gun culture" from TV - in which having a gun is seen as commanding fear or respect. Having the gun, and the willingness to use it with very little provocation, is what I think the sociologists call a "threat display" - it means the person is not to be messed with because he is so crazy and destructive that you could "set him off. It is a preemptive defense by puffing up (bottle-brush tail, fur standing up along the spine, prancing sideways on tiptoes, hissing - the Halloween Cat). A truly capable defender does not need to puff up.
I'm at a loss to explain why "Never Again" is merely a slogan to some Jews; and to others a heartfelt, solemn promise of return fire.
The Rabbi,
Thank you for bringing the discussion down to Earth. I do not see being armed as a sufficient defense against another pogrom - necessary yes, sufficient no. However, I do see being armed as influencing the cost:benefit calculation of anyone, thug or demagog, who wants my hide for a lampshade.
Purrrs,
BobCat
http://www.bayourifles.org
http://www.thss.org
Your wife's cousin sounds like all too many of my family and friends "in the Old Country" - i.e. back North. As, I must add, like *me* thirty-some years ago. Having grown up in a sheltered place and never having experienced anything worse than shouted insults, thrown stones, and an occasional bloody nose - I was *sure* that (a/o WWII) the nazis were all gone, there were no truly evil people left, so there was no one to legitimately shoot. Guns were only for cops and robbers...
Anyway, on the "threatening" part - I did not express it properly. People who appear "threatening" are, by definition, perceived as threats; and threats get neutralized. OTOH people who appear "formidable" are less likely to be messed with.
There is a distinction between someone who is prone to violence - and should be avoided or de-clawed - and someone who does not want any trouble, but if attacked, will turn the attacker's heart and lungs to hamburger with hollow points. Appearing to be the latter, without seeming like the former, is a challenge.
People talk about the "gun culture" and I ask "Which one?" There is the traditional gun culture, which stresses individual responsibility, safety, and the duty to protect - self, family, community, people. Having a gun means being a trusted member of the community, an adult, shouldering adult responsibilities, and with enough self-control not to flip out and start shooting people at the drop of a hat (or insult).
OTOH there is the "popular gun culture" from TV - in which having a gun is seen as commanding fear or respect. Having the gun, and the willingness to use it with very little provocation, is what I think the sociologists call a "threat display" - it means the person is not to be messed with because he is so crazy and destructive that you could "set him off. It is a preemptive defense by puffing up (bottle-brush tail, fur standing up along the spine, prancing sideways on tiptoes, hissing - the Halloween Cat). A truly capable defender does not need to puff up.
I'm at a loss to explain why "Never Again" is merely a slogan to some Jews; and to others a heartfelt, solemn promise of return fire.
The Rabbi,
Thank you for bringing the discussion down to Earth. I do not see being armed as a sufficient defense against another pogrom - necessary yes, sufficient no. However, I do see being armed as influencing the cost:benefit calculation of anyone, thug or demagog, who wants my hide for a lampshade.
Purrrs,
BobCat
http://www.bayourifles.org
http://www.thss.org