Seattleimport
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Just read the article on the 14 year-old kid who shot up his dad, his aunt, and his grandma with a .22 rifle that his dad had bought him for his 14th birthday.
http://www.cnn.com/2011/CRIME/01/18/south.carolina.family.shot/
The kid later called the cops and explained what he'd done in a "clear, methodical voice." According to investigators, there were no behavioral issues or other typical warning signs for violence. Apparently he just spontaneously went nuts, grabbed his rifle, and started killing.
Which begs the question: how do we, as responsible gun owners, deal with kids and guns? More specifically, as a parent, how does your behavior (in terms of using/storing/providing access to guns) differ from when you were not a parent?
I grew up shooting air rifles, and later, my grandfather's 10/22 (willed to me upon his death). Occasional visits to uncles in the country gave me access to bigger rifles, shotguns, and pistols. And of course the bolt-action .22 rifles were the best part of boy scouts and camp.
But growing up, my dad kept the bullets locked away. I could handle the rifle (to clean, or just fiddle with) but any time we wanted to shoot, we went shooting together. Even though the gun was mine, my dad took responsibility for it, and for my actions with it.
Nowadays, as a 30-something, it seems like that was a decent choice but that the gun itself should have also been secured behind lock and key. After all, it's easy to buy bullets. And besides, any time it could be legally fired, I'd need him to be with me anyway: unlawful to discharge firearm within city limits, and the shooting ranges required shooters to be 18+ or accompanied by legal guardian.
What do you guys think? Any parents out there with insight?
http://www.cnn.com/2011/CRIME/01/18/south.carolina.family.shot/
The kid later called the cops and explained what he'd done in a "clear, methodical voice." According to investigators, there were no behavioral issues or other typical warning signs for violence. Apparently he just spontaneously went nuts, grabbed his rifle, and started killing.
Which begs the question: how do we, as responsible gun owners, deal with kids and guns? More specifically, as a parent, how does your behavior (in terms of using/storing/providing access to guns) differ from when you were not a parent?
I grew up shooting air rifles, and later, my grandfather's 10/22 (willed to me upon his death). Occasional visits to uncles in the country gave me access to bigger rifles, shotguns, and pistols. And of course the bolt-action .22 rifles were the best part of boy scouts and camp.
But growing up, my dad kept the bullets locked away. I could handle the rifle (to clean, or just fiddle with) but any time we wanted to shoot, we went shooting together. Even though the gun was mine, my dad took responsibility for it, and for my actions with it.
Nowadays, as a 30-something, it seems like that was a decent choice but that the gun itself should have also been secured behind lock and key. After all, it's easy to buy bullets. And besides, any time it could be legally fired, I'd need him to be with me anyway: unlawful to discharge firearm within city limits, and the shooting ranges required shooters to be 18+ or accompanied by legal guardian.
What do you guys think? Any parents out there with insight?