I warned y'all of a crumudgeonly response. If'n you wanted plain-text production of
Hair you came to the wrong place.
The fundamental point is not if kilts are the next man-purse fashion craze, but just what (usually) minor dependants have in the way of leeway when:
1. They are minors/dependants
2. Have their schooling paid by others
In the immortal words of BB King, "I Pay the Cost to Be the Boss." If someone else is paying your way (taxpayers or your parents by way of tuition), you can just sit back and drink a nice, warm glass of **** when the folks who are paying your way say so (or their representatives say so). If they want your happy self to wear boring, squeaky-clean garb, deal with it. If you are over 18, you have no obligation to be in school and can go elsewhere to revel in your kiltedness. If you are under 18, drink that nice, warm glass when your folks say so and be downstairs at the appointed time, in appropriate dress.
One common theme I found in responses is that of promoting "non-conformity." I don't think much of "non-conformity," because unless the non-conformist is also a hermit who runs off all visitors, potential followers, etc; that non-conformist is part of a social group and will conform to the norms of that group, to include attire.
Also, if somebody can't hold their act together for 8 hours/day in such a low-pressure environment as the average high school, they need some discipline imposed on their flighty selves. Life after high school only get more pressureized.
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TallPine said:
jfruser said:
School's purpose is not to let every wiseacre and unemployable anti-authoritarian type act out every lame idea that pops into their head.
Of course not - the purpose of public schools is to ingraine herd mentality and obedience to your masters.
I'm not too keen on government/public schools, myself. My experience in them was that most wanted to teach me the usual academics, encourage participation in some athletics, instill some self-discipline, inculcate a contemporary/conventional lefty political orientation, and impart a disdain for traditional Christianity. I would have been satisfied if the public schools I attended had omitted the last two.
That said, most gov't schools' avowed/admitted purpose is the above (less the two latter items). Here is an example:
http://www.eastlake-hs.pinellas.k12.fl.us/index.html
The community of East Lake High School will promote highest student achievement by aligning curriculum, instruction, assessment and classroom learning tools in a safe environment.
The private schools I attended had purposes similar to the following:
http://www.stpeter.pvt.k12.mn.us/index.php?option=com_content&task=blogsection&id=6&Itemid=2
The purpose of St. Peter's Lutheran School is to assist parents in the education of their children by providing a Christ-centered learning environment which emphasizes academic excellence, personal Christian growth and service to God and community.
"Act like a knucklehead and distract others from getting an education" is conspicuously absent from any gov't or private school mission statement I have bothered to actually read. So is, "Mock the values of those who are paying for your education so you don't spend the rest of your days an ignorant schlub." I also can't find "Actualize one's inner Scot." Public or private,
others are paying the cost of these minors' education. As long as they live on and benefit from the efforts of others, those others get to call the shots.
Once they are on their own, they can act/up/out as they please...and reap the consequences.
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Firethorn said:
jfruser said:
Kilt-boy likely already knew the dress code & decided to break it. Who cares if his kilt-wearing was in accordance with some historical or re-enactors' standard? Send him home to be dressed properly by his mommy, since he can't manage the task.
How is a kilt any worse than a skirt? Females have the choice nowadays. Why not the men? Heck, I think that a kilt looks better than those baggy jeans with the underwear showing.
Without the occasional incident like this, schools will simply continue to expand their attempts to fit all students into the same mold.
"Worse" or "better" than what females wear is irrelevant. You may have noticed that men & women are different in more ways than dress. What matters is that kilt-boy is living and attending school on the sufferance of others & those others get to make the rules if he wants to benefit from their tax dollars or tuition payments.
Mold, schmold. As long as they are minors they can do what their parents and those who their parents designate tell them to do. When they are adults, let them pay their own way and do as they will.
Firethorn said:
jfruser said:
I really don't care if callow youths feel stifled when told they can not wear their kilts in school. School's purpose is not to let every wiseacre and unemployable anti-authoritarian type act out every lame idea that pops into their head.
And smash every free thinker and innovator into the mold, huh? I hardly think that wearing a kilt is an indicator of unemployability. Heck, this board is often very anti-authoritarian.
I don't mind this stuff at a private school much, but at a public?
Riiight. All non-conformists like to think they are "free-thinkers" and "innovators." Bullhockey. They are still conformists...conforming to a different set of norms for whatever reason. Human nature does not change, no matter the garb; humans are social creatures.
If the wearing of a kilt is a non-negotiable for the prospective employee, many opportunities will be closed to them. Try getting a job at wearing a kilt at Perot Systems, for instance. Some employers aren't willing to fool with such. This is reality outside of the coffee house.
If a kilt-wearer manages to find employment, good for them & good for their employer. I hope they are both happy with the arrangement. God Bless America.
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yonderway said:
jfruser said:
I really don't care if callow youths feel stifled when told they can not wear their kilts in school. School's purpose is not to let every wiseacre and unemployable anti-authoritarian type act out every lame idea that pops into their head.
Surely you can't be that ignorant?
Ignorant
http://m-w.com/dictionary/ignorant
Main Entry: ig·no·rant
Pronunciation: 'ig-n(&-)r&nt
Function: adjective
1 a : destitute of knowledge or education <an ignorant society>; also : lacking knowledge or comprehension of the thing specified <parents ignorant of modern mathematics> b : resulting from or showing lack of knowledge or intelligence <ignorant errors>
2 : UNAWARE, UNINFORMED
- ig·no·rant·ly adverb
- ig·no·rant·ness noun
synonyms IGNORANT, ILLITERATE, UNLETTERED, UNTUTORED, UNLEARNED mean not having knowledge. IGNORANT may imply a general condition or it may apply to lack of knowledge or awareness of a particular thing <an ignorant fool> <ignorant of nuclear physics>. ILLITERATE applies to either an absolute or a relative inability to read and write <much of the population is still illiterate>. UNLETTERED implies ignorance of the knowledge gained by reading <an allusion meaningless to the unlettered>. UNTUTORED may imply lack of schooling in the arts and ways of civilization <strange monuments built by an untutored people>. UNLEARNED suggests ignorance of advanced subjects <poetry not for academics but for the unlearned masses>.
I do believe I have an understanding of the concept of a kilt and its wear. I also have some small first-hand experience.
yonderway said:
I wear a kilt almost daily. Yes, I wear it to the office. I am an IT professional that consults for Fortune 100 companies, and the kilt usually makes a splash in the first hour I'm there but then people forget I'm wearing it. I can't say I see a lot of people doing this in offices but I do know a number of office workers who wear the kilt to work without a problem. I do know some blue collar workers who cannot wear the kilt, but only for safety reasons (i.e. loose fabric getting caught in machinery could be disastrous, at the very least to one's modesty, with the possibility for terrible physical injury).
Good for you. You, I presume, are an adult and pay your own way. You make your own decisions and deal with the consequences. Kilt-boy in the original article is not in your position of independance.
Among those consequences you bear is the lack of employability by many employers who take issue with your favored mode of dress.
yonderway said:
Every now and then you run into an intolerant ignoramous who can't stand to see a man in a kilt, usually because they lack the cajones to wear one in public themselves. It does, after all, take a certain amount of dignity, self-esteem, and backbone to stand out from the crowd. Something that the hardcore naysayers usually lack in abundance.
If you say so.
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Hunter Rose said:
jfruser said:
I really don't care if callow youths feel stifled when told they can not wear their kilts in school. School's purpose is not to let every wiseacre and unemployable anti-authoritarian type act out every lame idea that pops into their head.
Wow, Comrade... you're absolutely right, we should all be carbon copies of the Perfect Worker, to better serve our Kremiln masters...
Thanks, I'd rather any child of mine be a unique individual, with the self esteeme and confidance necessary to stand out from the herd, then to be One of Many marching to the drum of conformity...
Yep, requiring minors & dependants to dress appropriate to the occasion is just like Communism. Or not.
Wearing a kilt is not non-conformist. It is merely conforming to a different standard. An example of such risible "non-conformity" was the pathetic Goth dress of a few years back. Oh, yeah, those folks were real non-conformists...
...despite dressing the same way
...despite listening to the same bad music
...despite dyeing their hair the same jet black
...despite avoiding the sun to preserve their fish-belly-white complexions (of those who can attain such an exalted state of fish-bellyness)
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JJpdxpinkpistols said:
jfruser said:
Kilt-boy likely already knew the dress code & decided to break it.
Uhhh...sorry to break this to you, but most places of employ or schooling do no have a dress code that mentions kilts for men. My workplaces sees kilts every now and again. I work in a switch room where it is COLD so I don't think i would be wearing one, but my workplace has established "Whats good for the goose is good for the gander". Therefore, if gals can wear skirts, guys can wear kilts.
Ban skirts for both and you can be safe in not having to look at a boy's knees.
You are an adult who works in a place that allows kilts. Good for you. Just how does that bear on a schoolboy who is not supporting himself and is attending a school paid for by someone(s) else?
Here is a gov't school district dress code for an example:
http://www.pinellas.k12.fl.us/Planning/files/585E983476A84057B0C49E61419DFFF6.pdf
The dress and grooming of Pinellas County students shall be neat and clean, promoting a positive educational environment. Apparel that disrupts educational activities and processes of the school will result in the removal of the student from the regular school environment until acceptable apparel can be secured for the student. The administration will be the final judge about whether a student’s clothing is appropriate for school or whether it will create an environmental climate that is distracting to learning. Principals, faculty, and staff members will enforce the dress code.
Individual schools may have additional requirements if supported by a majority of School Advisory Council (SAC) members, and if they are placed in the school handbook or planner.
Requirements for student dress in all schools are listed below:
1. All shirts and blouses must cover midriff, back, sides, and all undergarments including bra straps at all times. All shirts, tops, and dresses shall have sleeves and cover the shoulders.
2. Shorts, skirts, divided skirts, dresses and culottes are allowed. They must be hemmed and be mid-thigh length or longer.
3. All trousers, pants or shorts must totally cover undergarments, including boxer shorts.
4. All clothing, jewelry or tattoos shall be free of the following: profanity; violent images, wording or suggestion; sexually suggestive phrases or images; gang related symbols; alcohol, tobacco, drugs or advertisements for such products.
5. Safe and appropriate footwear must be worn. Inappropriate footwear includes, but is not limited to, roller skates, skate shoes and bedroom slippers.
Further clarification/other requirements:
a. Form fitting leotard/spandex type clothing (including sport bras) is not allowed unless proper outer garments cover it.
b. See through or mesh fabric clothing may only be worn over clothing meeting requirements.
c. Clothing must be appropriate size, with the waist of the garment worn at the student’s waist.
d. Clothing not properly buttoned, zipped, fastened, or with inappropriate holes or tears shall not be worn.
e. Clothing and footwear traditionally designed as undergarments or sleepwear shall not be worn as outer garments.
f. Sunglasses may not be worn inside unless a parent provides a doctor’s note to the school.
g. Bandanas or sweatbands are not allowed to be visible on school grounds during the regular school hours.
h. Hats or other head coverings may be worn during outside P.E. activities and may not be worn during any portion of the regular school day without the expressed permission of the principal.
i. If the school has a mandatory school uniform policy, the student must adhere to those requirements.
No, kilts are not referenced, but Section 5.i. would mandate a no-kilt-zone (outside of Scotland), I expect. Also, the first paragraph would likely be kilt-unfriendly.
Here is an article about attire in the business world:
http://www.findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m4021/is_2002_May_1/ai_88679443
Dress Code - US corporations reinstituting business dress policies
Unless you work for one of the handful of surviving Internet start-ups, wearing vintage Pumas and a Def Leppard T-shirt to work may no longer cut the mustard...more than half of large businesses (56 percent) maintain a business attire policy - that means a suit and tie for the gents and a suit or dress for the ladies.
To write, "but most places of employ or schooling do no have a dress code that mentions kilts for men," may be correct, but doesn't really mean much in that most codes requirements preclude kilts.
For folks who may be ignorant of the norms of attire in the private sector:
Business Casual
http://careercenter.tamu.edu/Students/S1/S1B2C.shtml
Business Attire/Interview Attire
http://careercenter.tamu.edu/Students/S1/S1B2B.shtml