tluxtele
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I'm not sure where to put this... or if this even fits in with what this site is about... but I figured you guys might be the best ones to help me. I don't post a lot but I read often and respect you guys a lot.
I'm not going to go into all the details but I'll tell you the basics. My mom has reason to be afraid of a family member. This family member has gone as far as vandalizing her house and car. She now has a restraining order against him but is unsure of what he will do.
As I was talking to her (the same women who wouldn't let me have a toy gun when I was a kid) started talking about self-defence. I said, "if you were younger I'd tell you to get a gun" and she said, "I'm planning on getting one." She's actually serious. And if she is I want to be as much help to her as I can be. She's still raising my niece (16) and I want everyone to be safe.
My mom is a small woman (maybe 5 feet). She has a bit of arthritis and is 70 years old. I'm really at a loss as to know how to guide her. For one, I'm new to all this myself.
Do you guys have any advice for me/her? Where should I tell her to start? Training? Try out guys? She is still afraid of guns, but she's more afraid of this family member now. I don't want her to rush into anything. But I don't want to tell her to jump through so many hoops that she doesn't have a gun when she needs it.
If this doesn't belong her could you please guide to where I can ask this question. I really want to help my mom.
Thanks for your help in advance.
I'm not going to go into all the details but I'll tell you the basics. My mom has reason to be afraid of a family member. This family member has gone as far as vandalizing her house and car. She now has a restraining order against him but is unsure of what he will do.
As I was talking to her (the same women who wouldn't let me have a toy gun when I was a kid) started talking about self-defence. I said, "if you were younger I'd tell you to get a gun" and she said, "I'm planning on getting one." She's actually serious. And if she is I want to be as much help to her as I can be. She's still raising my niece (16) and I want everyone to be safe.
My mom is a small woman (maybe 5 feet). She has a bit of arthritis and is 70 years old. I'm really at a loss as to know how to guide her. For one, I'm new to all this myself.
Do you guys have any advice for me/her? Where should I tell her to start? Training? Try out guys? She is still afraid of guns, but she's more afraid of this family member now. I don't want her to rush into anything. But I don't want to tell her to jump through so many hoops that she doesn't have a gun when she needs it.
If this doesn't belong her could you please guide to where I can ask this question. I really want to help my mom.
Thanks for your help in advance.