Read the instructions that came with the die set. It’ll tell you how to increase or decrease the crimp.
Your crimp on the .45 looks good. Many people measure the crimp with a caliper where the crimp is. Nofendertom gave you his measurement for his .45. I don’t load .45 so I can’t help you. I do it a little different. I adjust the die for length first. Then I do a dummy round (no primer/powder). I seat the bullet with minimal crimp. Then I tap the bullet on top a couple of times. Then I measure it. If it moved back into the case at all, I tighten the crimp and repeat with another dummy round. When I get just enough crimp to prevent setback, I tighten the die completely and repeat 1 more time, measuring and testing setback. If alls good I do a plunk test on every gun in that caliber I own. If they all plunk, I’m good to go. I do this for .380, 9mm and .40. It would also work for your .45.
The pic of the .357 is overcrimped in my opinion. Doing so likely deformed the bullet which will affect accuracy. It will also shorten case life. And it you were pushing max pressure, it could cause an unsafe pressure situation.
As far as your question if it’s safe, that would depend on the gun they are being shot from and the load itself. If the load is well below max and it’s being shot out of a modern firearm chambered in .357, I wouldn’t have a problem shooting them. If it’s a max load, personally I wouldn’t chance it.
All that said, welcome to THR and reloading. It’s a never ending learning process. Then when you think you know it all, you forget something
Edit: You may have a crimp only die which should be easier to adjust than a seating/crimp die.