Reacting to home intruder

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It will be avoided if at all possible. I don't like fighting, confrontation, or any of the like, but when you have expensive things outside and no neighbors, no quick police action, nothing but you, a man has to do what he can to keep what is rightfully his. If I didn't I wouldn't have anything. My wifes car was broken into in the driveway between 4:30 am and 5:00 am. The guy (I found out who he was and what happened) seen me leave for work and took advantage of the situation. He was out trying to steal money left for the trash man. Thats working pretty hard for a used cell phone and whatever may be in a vehicle of value and $12 per trash can. Drug abusers here are bad and will not work (legally) to support their habit. I wont support it either.
 
beeenbag said:
...I understand what your saying about being ambushed....and I honestly feel if I stay aware of that and do things based on what I know about the situation at hand I can handle things....
Yes, I understand that you think you can handle things. But you are young and apparently without any significant tactical training. The folks who are more experienced and/or who have had some serious training will disagree with your assessment.

You started this thread asking opinions on a DVD that about dealing with an intruder, and which recommended taking a secure defensive position, calling the police and waiting.

As has been discussed in this thread, that is exactly the approach taught by major self defense schools and recommended by experienced and/or trained people. It is the sort of approach recommended by people who do go looking for bad guys for a living. And the reasons why taking a secure defensive position is the better idea have been discussed as well.

Personally, I'll take experience and training.
 
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Posted by rondog: We had an incident here recently where a homeowner shot a teenage burglar who was still on the front porch, just trying to get in. The H/O shot him in the head and knocked him off the porch and wasn't charged, in accordance with our Make My Day law. Responding LEO's were a few houses down at another call, and heard the shot.

Not quite. Based on the guy's arm having come through the glass to unlock the door, it was decided at the county investigative level that he had entered unlawfully (necessary for justification under the law), and his loud demands were taken as having provided the homeowner with reasonable belief that he intended to commit violence against the homeowners in addition to the unlawful entry (also necessary).

Could have come down either way. By the way, the homeowner can still be charged until he is tried and acquitted, pardoned, or dead. Unlikely, I think, but it has happened.

I was just going off memory. I looked it up, and the maggot was shot twice in the head, and found on the porch. H/O was still no-billed, AFAIK.
 
Guess im just old fashioned..... eye for an eye type

Ya know there are alot of things that people do that aren't considered the safest things in the world. Some consider riding motorcycles suicide, some think the same about extreme sports, some even think shooting guns for a hobby is dangerous. :what: If everything I done had to revolve around the safest ways to get by I wouldn't do anything.

Do you think our grandparents (in their youth) would have let some drunken idiot steal everthing they own? Mine most certainly would not and did not.

I just didn't realize there were many people out there that would rather stand by and do nothing, rather than risk a certain amount of safety to do the right (in my mind) thing. To each his own.
 
If you're just going to hide and allow them to loot your home, why own a gun at all? Put the money into reinforcing your bedroom door.

I suspect most people have a fairly fast police response time - ten minutes? So, waiting it out may make sense for most people. Other people have very long waits, or they have bedrooms on multiple floors. Are you going to barricade yourself upstairs while your children are in another room downstairs?

Let's get real here. There's no correct "tactical" response to a home invasion. Your response is going to depend on your personal situation, not on some generic tactical rule.

Do what you have to do.
 
I just didn't realize there were many people out there that would rather stand by and do nothing, rather than risk a certain amount of safety to do the right (in my mind) thing. To each his own.

Unfortunately, in today's society the person defending himself, his family and his property IS NOT the one that has the safety of the law behind him, the criminals do. Doing the "right" thing by going after intruders may very well be the most "wrong" thing you could do. Things in this country are gradually turning around backwards, it seems. Be sure to CYA first.
 
Because of my homes layout, I would most likely not have the option of taking refuge. I have 4 little ones in the home. The most likely point of entry by a criminal to my home our be a side or back door. because of the layout of my home my girls would either be directly in those areas, or in their rooms which leaves little buffer between those entry points and their rooms.

In short, I have very little to no territory to give before they are in direct danger. If they are in in their rooms, i have a good defensible choke point which will tend to be darker than their entry point giving me the advantage on targeting but the backstop for a BG will be my kids rooms no matter which way they miss me. So really, in my home, my best defense to a home invader is to hit them quick and hard to minimize any shots they can get off and how far into the home they can get.

To be clear, it ain't about stuff, I got insurance for my stuff, its about those lives that depend on me to protect them. When it comes to that, i could care less what the law is, their lives come first to me. In NC however, I do believe a home invasion under the scenario I laid out would meet the legal criteria for use of deadly force anyway. A reasonable person (or 12 of them) would likely consider the invaders as a threat of serious harm or death to 4 small children in the home.

It does depend a lot on the scenario though. I would doubt I would have time to call 911 before addressing the threat. . My wife may, but I will not.
 
beeenbag said:
...I just didn't realize there were many people out there that would rather stand by and do nothing, rather than risk a certain amount of safety to do the right (in my mind) thing...
It'd not a matter of doing nothing. If you think it is, that just shows how lacking your training and understanding is. It's about choosing the tactical response most likely to effectively accomplish the mission. And to me, the mission is assuring the safety of my family.

[1] Because in the real world the ensconced adversary (i. e., the BG) has a significant tactical advantage because he only needs to wait for you to come to him and to be ready when you show up.

[2] My training has told me how to clear my house. But it has also told me that it's a very high risk procedure, and doing so when not necessary (unless, for example, if I need to go and see to the safety of unaccounted for innocents) jeopardizes my primary mission. And my primary mission is to keep my family safe. That is best accomplished by keeping them all together with me in a defensible place of safety.

It's always interesting to see how these threads develop. Except for the folks like Gouranga who are in situations that present real and significant tactical problems, we tend to wind up with two well defined camps.

[1] On one hand, we have folks who have, apparently, had little significant tactical training. They tend to think it's a fine idea to go hunting bad guys.

[2] On the other hand, we have folks who have been to school and/or whose job it is to go looking for bad guys. They tend to not to want to go hunting bad guys and, even though they have been trained in how to do it, they think it's a lousy idea unless circumstances, i. e., the safety of one or more innocent people, require it.

KodiakBeer said:
...Are you going to barricade yourself upstairs while your children are in another room downstairs?...
I certainly am not. And if you go back over my posts, I've repeatedly said, in effect, if there are unaccounted for innocents who are not with you in a place of safety, you have to attend to that.

But if all my friends and family are together with me in a place of safety, I'm not going to abandon them to go hunting bad guys.
 
oh tactical shmactical, the bad guys around here 99 times out of 100 are your ordinary run of the mill punks. Very rarely are the bad guys looking for more than something they can quickly grab and trade for a pill somewhere. If most of these punks had an uzi to assault me with, they would trade IT for a pill, probably a couple of em. I wouldn't really call runnin off, or confronting a BG a "mission". Besides that, if I go down my wife is waitin in the house with .357 and she shoots better than I do.
 
A deputies report about my local area

"Friday, July 2, 2010
A residence in the 100 block of Plantation, in Whispering Oaks, was burglarized. Burglars broke out the windows in the back door and climbed through. (there was no key in the double key deadbolt) They took 2 TV's from the house through a larger window. The alarm prevented further items being stolen. The alarm was set off at 1:03PM, HPD assigned the call at 1:12PM, the resident called Pct 5 at 1:19PM and Pct 5 deputies arrived at 1:22PM."

It did not say when the Houston Police arrived or if they ever did. But the alarm had been wailing away from 1:03 to 1:19 before the homeowner who had apparently been baracaded somewhere else in the house waiting for the Houston Police to arrive, got fed up and called the Harris County deputies office for help. Since they are a deputy service paid for by the subdivisions to augment security, they got there in 4 minutes.

The burglars apparently realized that they had plenty of time as they still stole two TV's through I guess a second broken window all while the alarm was wailing away. I guess if there was no alarm the burglars would have gone room by room looking for more stuff to steal and may have ended up meeting the homeowners baracaded in a closet some where.

I will confront the burglar on my terms.
 
Besides that, if I go down my wife is waitin in the house with .357 and she shoots better than I do.

Troll? How does ^this make any sense at all?
 
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fiddletown, I read your posts and do appreciate your advice. I mean that. I also would find it very difficult to remain with my family upstairs. I would simply make certain my family is safe, make certain they are armed, and proceed with as much untrained caution as I am capable (which might not be sufficient) to see if there are one or more invaders. I know I would be unsettled and very likely scared, but we have all been scared before the fight starts. Eventhough the smart tactical thing to do is just wait for the police, I would have to attempt to walk down those stairs and defend my property and life. I have to assume that if they are that bold to rob my house with me in it, then they will have no problem in attempting to killing all occupants to better avoid prosecution. I know it seems better to always walk away, but sometimes you just can't.
 
Eventhough the smart tactical thing to do is just wait for the police, I would have to attempt to walk down those stairs and defend my property and life.

This really is a discussion we should be having.

OK, so the tactical-SWAT-special ops-whatever guys have run drills that show that the best strategy is to hole up, funnel the BGs though a killing zone, and pick them off as they try to enter it.

I'm no strategic Einstein, but I could work that out on my own. Of course that's the best approach. It's a no-brainer.

Real life, on the other hand, isn't a scenario, isn't a force-on-force simulation. The people breaking in are after something. They aren't going to be playing games, and they aren't going to be trained expert SWAT team members; they won't be crack Spetsnaz commandos. So what will they be?

Statistically they will most likely be teenagers looking for a quick buck, addicts, invaders from across the tracks, part of the crew that did some home contracting work on your house, and very rarely might be some kind of professional thieves.

Oh, I could be wrong here, sure. Maybe you did work for the company out of Langley, and you're a loose end, and some kind of clean-up crew has been dispatched to liquidate you. But 9 times out of 10 it won't be people with loaded weapons pointed and ready to kill everything on sight.

So if you have some kind of IPSC training, some level of practice shooting on the run, acquiring targets in pop-up situations, and if you've practiced and drilled that sort of thing under pressure, you are probably skilled far in excess of the jerkballs you'll be likely to encounter.

The main issue, as I see it, is that I own my property. I walk my land. If some couple of punks can reduce me to hiding in a bolt-hole while I desperately phone for help from the professionals, then I really don't own anything. This isn't my property, I'm just occupying it until the punks show up, and then they own it.

That isn't acceptable.
 
I know it seems better to always walk away, but sometimes you just can't.


If some couple of punks can reduce me to hiding in a bolt-hole while I desperately phone for help from the professionals, then I really don't own anything.


Taking a well-planned defensive position, emergency phone line open, fully prepared to blow up any unauthorized person who enters the shooting-zone YOU have chosen, is NOT the same as walking away, or hiding in a bolt-hole waiting to be rescued.
 
OK, I am daringly adding my 2 cents to this already charged and probably about-to-be-closed thread.

How do you complete the age old adage: If you're going to use a gun, you'd better be prepared to **fill in the blank**? I always thought "to pull the trigger" or "to kill someone". But, a class instructor taught me a different answer. If you're going to use a gun, you'd better be prepared to die for whatever you are using it to protect.

I was also taught this: the average home invasion consists of four baddies (88% of all statistics are made up, I know) - I am taking this figure with a grain of salt, and this is probably including wheelmen and lookouts. The short story is this - if some guys are outside stealing my car, am I going to risk death over something I still owe over $10K for? Or the crap in my garage? I'm going to get ready for their entry into my home, sure. But I ain't going out there. Those things are not worth me potentially dying over.

Once it's home entry, tactics change. Currently, I am married with no kids, so I have the luxury of ensconcing myself in my bedroom. There's nothing cowardly about creating a well-laid trap. If anyone is going to blunder into a killzone, it's gonna be the baddies, not me. However, once kids come, tactics will change. Plans will have to be made to secure the children. Preferably, my wife and I would both be armed and make our way to our children as quickly as possible (taking into account the risk of an encounter and/or being killed in the process, but necessary to protect children), and create our barricade there. Again, no one but a baddie should walk into a killzone.

If you're going to use a gun, you'd better be prepared to die for whatever you are using it to protect. Does my car, TV, priceless heirlooms, couch, fridge, etc. fall into this category? For me, no. Does my wife, myself and future children? You'd better believe it. So, answering the original question of the thread, yes, I would find a defensible position in my house and wait for the baddies to attempt to run my barricade, not the other way around.
 
If you're going to use a gun, you'd better be prepared to die for whatever you are using it to protect. Does my car, TV, priceless heirlooms, couch, fridge, etc. fall into this category? For me, no. Does my wife, myself and future children? You'd better believe it. So, answering the original question of the thread, yes, I would find a defensible position in my house and wait for the baddies to attempt to run my barricade, not the other way around.
I agree!
 
Posted by beeenbag:...the bad guys around here 99 times out of 100 are your ordinary run of the mill punks.
The most recent home invasion in which a homeowner was killed in our area involved two teenage males. What's your point?

It's amazing to me that whenever this subject comes up, someone without a whole lot of training professes to know more about what to do than those who have received and delivered training and those among those categories who have in fact enforced the law for a living.

I've never participated in FoF training relevant to the subject at hand. I base my judgments on knowledge imparted by experienced experts and on basic analysis and common sense.

Posted by Robert101: Even though the smart tactical thing to do is just wait for the police, I would have to attempt to walk down those stairs and defend my property and life.
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How would exposing oneself to being shot contribute to defending one's life? Wouldn't the "smart, tactical thing to do" serve more effectively toward that end?

I have to assume that if they are that bold to rob my house with me in it, then they will have no problem in attempting to killing all occupants to better avoid prosecution.
Much more likely that they will kill to avoid being killed or captured, I should think.

I know it seems better to always walk away, but sometimes you just can't.
Huh?

Posted by shockwave: Real life, on the other hand, isn't a scenario, isn't a force-on-force simulation.

Force on force simulation is just that--something intended to simulate "real life". That's true whether one is simulating street attacks, hostage rescue, or house clearing--or air combat, for that matter. Take out the "FoF" and simulation is used in flight training to simulate power loss, fire, wind shear, vortex-induced sudden inversion; nuclear power plant emergencies; space launch sequences and operations to be undertaken during extra-vehicle-activity; and other things in which relevant real life experience is either too infrequent, too dangerous, or too expensive.

It is used not only to train but to develop successful tactics. When the occasion demands, the tactics work, if the participants absorbed the training and act properly.

The people breaking in are after something.
Obviously, but one of their objectives will be to not get caught or shot.

They aren't going to be playing games, and they aren't going to be trained expert SWAT team members; they won't be crack Spetsnaz commandos. So what will they be?...Statistically they will most likely be teenagers looking for a quick buck, addicts, invaders from across the tracks, part of the crew that did some home contracting work on your house, and very rarely might be some kind of professional thieves....But 9 times out of 10 it won't be people with loaded weapons pointed and ready to kill everything on sight.
I suggest that if they came in knowing that you were home, there are probably more than one of them, they are most probably armed, their adrenalin levels will be very high indeed, and they will be more than ready and willing to shoot on sight.

So if you have some kind of IPSC training, some level of practice shooting on the run, acquiring targets in pop-up situations, and if you've practiced and drilled that sort of thing under pressure, you are probably skilled far in excess of the jerkballs you'll be likely to encounter.
I tend to agree. However, that would not make me want to squander the significant advantage of fighting from a defensive position and putting myself out in the open.

If you care to take the time to read the other threads on this, you will find several recurrent themes, Among them are (1) I know my house, he doesn't; (2) "punks" can't beat me in a gunfight; (3) I know more than all of the experts combined; (4) the simulations don't apply to me; and (5) "hiding" is cowardly.

Incidentally, Number 5 was one of the bitter complaints of British officers about the Minutemen as their numbers were thinned during the march back from Concord Bridge.

You will also find that while the NTI training involved only skilled shooters, the training that hso participated in was open to ordinary people. Repeated from a post above, here's one of hso's observations:

Even though it was "our" house we would find ourselves taking hits because there just is no way to cover all the angles by yourself. Regardless of whether you know the position of ever stick of furniture and every shadow there just isn't any way to pick LEFT and RIGHT at the same time as your FIRST direction to look. The idea that you can safely clear your own home by yourself is self delusion.

As it turns out, I once suffered under that same delusion. But no more. I choose to learn from those who know what they are doing.

I thank Ayoob, fiddletown, hso, mbt2001, my CCW instructor Dan Smith, A County Police Lieutenant who once commanded the SWAT Team, and many others for setting me straight on this. I apologize for omissions here.
 
So what's the statistical profile of your average burglar? That is, in what numbers do they operate (alone or with others?), how often are they armed, what are they armed with, and how statistically likely are they to fight, flee, or murder if confronted by an armed homeowner?

Just asking.
 
All the "training" and advice from the "professionals" means nothing to me. Nothing makes up for instinct. You can train a wimp for years, they're still a wimp. Blackbelts get dropped in barfights all the time.
 
Heard a fairly loud TAP TAP TAP on the living room window...

Went on for a while, then stopped. Then on our bedroom window! TAP TAP TAP...

That got my attention. Discreetly looked outside... (the bedroom being darker than the back yard) Nothing!

Then TAP TAP TAP... Back in the living room...


What the heck?


Now, my house was owned by a fireman who would be on duty for 3 days, and to give his wife and family some protection he put good bars on all the windows and doors. Now, when we bought the house, I brought our modern alarm along and had it installed. Between the two of them, you are going to make some serious noise to get into our house, so I can investigate things fairly safely..

So, here I am with gun in one hand, flashlight in another, and TAP TAP TAP in the living room.

I sneak up to the window, Surefire at the ready, and boom! light the BG up with that 500 lumen beam...

Nothing...

Went back to bed. No more tapping.

Next day I heard it again. Here's who it was...



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Yes indeed, the local Scrub Jay daddy looking for a cat to torment... (you have to love a bird that makes such an effort to annoy cats...)

I thought the whole thing through... Lessons learned?

1. You really need some perimeter defense so you know when someone is trying to come in. Bars, alarm, barking dog, whatever. You do NOT want to find out someone is in your house when they wake you up...

2. As my instructor told me years ago, keep your finger out of the trigger guard until you ID your target to prevent unintended discharge...

3. The dark is your friend. Use it to your advantage.

4. Again, never ever shoot until the target is ID'ed.

5. Panic will kill you or your family, or just a Scrub Jay, faster than bullets...


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All the "training" and advice from the "professionals" means nothing to me. Nothing makes up for instinct. You can train a pussy for years, they're still a pussy. Blackbelts get dropped in barfights all the time.


Properly trained blackbelts walk away from bar fights. Let them go.


Instinct can only take you so far.



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If someone breaks in, I won't be hiding in any closet, I'll shoot then we'll have a talk. Today with the guns that the thief may have, you better not say anything to him.
 
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