Spousal gun deals; what's yours?

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I'm building her (and daughter) a dollhouse. In exchange, she wont gripe about me spending $$ on a rather large gunsafe. Once the safe is in-place..she'll never know what lurks inside...they all look the same to her.

And besides...it's for the safety of THE CHILDREN. Kismet!
 
The only deal I have with my wife about my gun collection is a rule I set myself. I do not spend any money out of my regular paycheck for firearms. (ammo is ok but see below) If I want a new gun I have to work in other endevors or trade to come up with the money. This seems to be working well as we have had no problems for thirteen years. This has added the term "Gun Money" to our vocabulary. My gun collection has grown in number and value over that time. :D

Another little agreement we have that works well for us is both have to agree before a $100.00 purchase is made out of the family budget. (food bills etc. exempt)
 
Purchase at a gun show. = Trip to the florist.
Purchase at a gun shop. = Trip to shopping maul.
Multiple buys anywhere. = Trip to jewlery store.

It works the other way 'round too.
Things are changing though, Mrs Twigg just passed the required course for her LTC-A here and her application goes in Monday. :D
 
No deals here, just a wonderful wife. As long as there's a roof over our heads and food on the table she doesn't ask what I spend on my passion... even chastizes me if I "ask permission" for a particularly big splurge.

She's not a big spender, and doesn't ask for much for herself, but you can be sure that when there is something she wants, she gets it.

I found a good one... :D
 
No official deals

We just try to keep it more or less even. I have thought of hinting that the next time her company sends her to the Czech Republic, she might visit the factory and pick us up a CZ or two.
 
My wife used to complain about the guns I bought, but its funny how effective taking a pistol, inserting a mag, racking the slide, holding it to someone's head and telling them to mind their own #@$*ing business is at making that person see your point of view.

Just Kidding! Just Kidding! Just Kidding!

She's interested in my 'sickness' strictly from a financial standpoint, and I don't spend any large sum of money w/o talking to her first. She just got a bit of money from her mother's estate and I hear thru the grapevine that she's been asking our boys 'what kind of gun would daddy really like?' So I may be in for a nice Christmas. The kids told her that daddy would really like an FAL.
 
I am the tightwad around here so am usually my own barrier. Her spending karma usually gives me leeway when I am in the mood to spend.

My wife is not particularly interested in shooting, but then I am not interested in kayaking or holistic stuff.

She does not know how many firearms we have, hasn't bothered to count and doesn't care or pay attention unless they are in the way. She often assumes shooting days that I haven't even thought about planning and makes time on the calendar for me to get to the range.
 
GREAT THREAD!

I've enjoyed reading how many of the posters find compromise with their families, wives in particular about firearms. That's terrific to see.

My wife has one simple request...any gun that comes into our home she must know how to operate safely (whether she carries it or not is irrelevant).

That's it. Beyond that, I don't think she'd care if I had a howitzer on the front porch so long as she knew how to operate it. :)

Robert
 
Springmom said:
Yeah....I have to let him buy one before I can buy another one.

We're fortunate in that we're both into shooting. He bought me a Beretta A391 Urika in 20 gauge for an early 25th anniversary present. I bought HIM a new Remington 700 in 30-06, with a Zeiss scope. I got my new SRH because we had a bet...if the Mets had won the NLCS he'd have gotten a .44mag first, if the Cardinals won....well, I now have that 9 1/2" SRH

Springmom

Sounds like my wife and I. We both enjoy shooting, both carry..she just got her Rem 700 in 300WinMag and I'm up next...
 
Life and marriage is all about compromises. Last year I complained about the bills and the wife's spending on useless (as far as I'm concerned) crap, like candles for example. She decided I needed something for all the buying she had done in the past year, but I wouldn't take anything for free. So my rather expensive combination birthday and 30th anniversary present was a Colt AR-15 Tactical carbine.:D

I certainly wish she liked guns. I'd love to buy them for presents.
 
The best deal I ever got...Hmmmmm... Oh, I know, I got a Colt for my wife.

Best trade I ever made! Am I on the right thread?:confused:
 
"Hey Baby, which do you like better?"


"Oh, get whatever one ya want baby. Just let me shoot it a few times............"


"Thanks Baby!"
 
Spousal Deals

I don't make gun deals with spouses. I make the deal before the knot is tied.


"Here's the deal, love of my life. I'm a gun man. I carry guns and I shoot guns and I collect guns and sometimes I work on guns. If that's a problem, now's the time to put it on the table, because it's not negotiable...now or later." (And I have ex-wives to prove it.):D
 
my wife and i switch off on gun purchases.

almost all of hers are stainless though.
the "shiny factor" she calls it.

now the stepdaughter's getting involved, but she doesn't care what color they are, as long as they go boom.

my god, now when i buy guns i may have to buy 3 at a time. :what:
 
My wife is not anti-gun, but guns do scare her. Not the sight of them, but the whole loudness, recoil factor. I'm still working to get her to go shoot with me. (she's had zero exposure)
We treat new gun pruchases as any new purchase, which is planned and budgeted. Since we just married, and I just got out of debt, budgeting new guns has been/will be a challenge.


Dan
 
I'm a Realtor, and whenever we close a big sale, we keep a little "fun money" out, split it equally, hers for candle making, sewing, or her stained glass projects, and I get to spend mine for guns, reloading equipment etc.. Works great! The only problem is, she's getting into guns and shooting. Her money, her guns. Hope she lets me borrow one from time to time. But boy oh boy, I love my wife more every day. What a gal!
 
"Here's the deal, love of my life. I'm a gun man. I carry guns and I shoot guns and I collect guns and sometimes I work on guns. If that's a problem, now's the time to put it on the table, because it's not negotiable...now or later." (And I have ex-wives to prove it.)
I'd like to say that, but it wouldn't be true. Fact is I'd give up all my guns and never own another if it would bring back my wife's health.
 
1+ on SM's entry, #26

Every person here who is in a serious relationship should read SM's post, #26, and take that advice to heart. More wisdom in that then anything else said in this thread, not to say some other good things weren't mentioned.
 
My ex-wife was OK with me having guns in the house, but she was never real thrilled about it. Because I have tried to focus on school and on accomplishing some other things, I have actively avoided starting another relationship, which, combined with the horrific emotional roller-coaster that my divorce turned out to be, has brought me some real clarity in what I absolutely have to have in any new relationship. Tops on that list is guns. Any new girl that comes along and wants to roll with me absolutely, positively must like firearms. If she doesn't like to shoot, or if she is the least bit timid about guns, she is not the girl for me, period. I have just come to realize that guns are an important enough part of my life that I don't want to have to compromise just so I can have a relationship. After all, if I compromise on something this important to me, what kind of relationship is it going to be anyway? Since I am not interested in producing a kid, it makes it substantially easier on me, and by god, you should see how my collection has grown in the 5 years since the divorce as compared to what it was when I was married!
 
My wife was initially a little wierded out after seeing the inside of my gun safe when we were dating, just because of sheer volume, and a little bit by my carrying. She has hobbies of her own, and I'm as interested as I can bring myself to be, supportive, and make no negative comments regarding her expenditures. She's pretty much the same way, although occasionally she'll tell me I "have enough guns already." This is balanced out by memorable incidents like her checking out my AR and declaring "Oh my God, I think I love Assault Rifles! Yes, you should buy me an Eotech for it!"
To grossly misquote Mr. White; My wife used to complain about the guns I bought, but its funny how effective taking a pistol, inserting a mag, racking the slide, putting it in her hand, and inviting her to shoot a target is at making that person see your point of view.
 
Current woman I'm dating is scared of them. But she seems to realize I won't live unarmed, and that I take safety very seriously. I'll work on showing her they aren't evil, just a tool.
 
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