Mandabear3109
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Last night my fiancee and I got into a pretty big discussion about the second amendment debate, which led me to finding this site. Essentially, this is how the discussion went down:
I am fine with people owning guns, despite never picturing myself owning one. In fact, I have only shot two real guns in my life at a shooting range a few years ago. He [my fiancee] is really upset that I don't know where I stand, and I have no idea of how to handle this situation. Since last night, I have done some reading on both sides of the gun control debates but I think I am more confused now that I was before. I'm worried that this could become a big issue between my fiancee and I, and I am not sure how to handle our potential difference of opinion. Help!
We are both young [22] so I know that we have a lot of time ahead of us, but it seems as though me not knowing where I stand is going to cause some problems and I don't want the last 2 years to be thrown away just because I am unsure of my stance on guns/gun control.
Edit: Thank you to everyone who has contributed to the discussion. Your input has been very helpful and has allowed me to think critically about what I believe regarding 2A. Your words made me think in ways that I had not thought of before, and many examples were used that made a lot of sense to me personally. My road to understanding this topic has just begun, but I appreciate how this site handles itself in a professional and non-judgmental manner.
My fiancee and his family are big pro-gum advocates, and they all own at least one. They have decided to boycott places that do not support the right to own and carry a concealed weapon with the proper permits.
When he asked me how I felt on the topic, I responded by saying that I wasn't sure where I stood, since I had never really thought about the implications of gun ownership and had never even pictured myself owning a gun. He goes on to tell me that "It's people like you [said to me] who are ruining this country." What he heard was that I was not a pro-gun advocate; what I was really saying is that I am just unsure of my stance on the topic.
When he asked me how I felt on the topic, I responded by saying that I wasn't sure where I stood, since I had never really thought about the implications of gun ownership and had never even pictured myself owning a gun. He goes on to tell me that "It's people like you [said to me] who are ruining this country." What he heard was that I was not a pro-gun advocate; what I was really saying is that I am just unsure of my stance on the topic.
I am fine with people owning guns, despite never picturing myself owning one. In fact, I have only shot two real guns in my life at a shooting range a few years ago. He [my fiancee] is really upset that I don't know where I stand, and I have no idea of how to handle this situation. Since last night, I have done some reading on both sides of the gun control debates but I think I am more confused now that I was before. I'm worried that this could become a big issue between my fiancee and I, and I am not sure how to handle our potential difference of opinion. Help!
We are both young [22] so I know that we have a lot of time ahead of us, but it seems as though me not knowing where I stand is going to cause some problems and I don't want the last 2 years to be thrown away just because I am unsure of my stance on guns/gun control.
Edit: Thank you to everyone who has contributed to the discussion. Your input has been very helpful and has allowed me to think critically about what I believe regarding 2A. Your words made me think in ways that I had not thought of before, and many examples were used that made a lot of sense to me personally. My road to understanding this topic has just begun, but I appreciate how this site handles itself in a professional and non-judgmental manner.
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