Little_Bigman
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There's a discussion going on right now in which a fairly innocent situation escalated to within spitting distance of a gunfight over one flip remark to a stranger.
Other people are the one variable you can't account for in any type of practice, you really have no way of knowing what's going to cause a person to take ( in their mind legitimate) offense to a remark you meant entirely innocently. (Kinda like the white tourists who call me "chief").
How do you account for that? do you tend to be more reserved ? Quicker to back down? I'm only mouthy on the internet, I tend to be very quiet around strangers in the real world. I almost never start conversations with people I don't know.
I'd like to hear some other opinions
Other people are the one variable you can't account for in any type of practice, you really have no way of knowing what's going to cause a person to take ( in their mind legitimate) offense to a remark you meant entirely innocently. (Kinda like the white tourists who call me "chief").
How do you account for that? do you tend to be more reserved ? Quicker to back down? I'm only mouthy on the internet, I tend to be very quiet around strangers in the real world. I almost never start conversations with people I don't know.
I'd like to hear some other opinions