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Wife needs shooting technique help.

Discussion in 'General Gun Discussions' started by egyas, Dec 4, 2012.

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  1. egyas

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    Guys, I know this is going to sound somewhat funny, but this is a serious question. I have been trying to teach my wife to shoot, and it has been, let's say, difficult.

    I use the Isosceles stance when I shoot, and that's how I taught her. I just like the consistency it brings. However, it if very uncomfortable for her. See, my wife is very large breasted, and when she brings her weapon up and extends her arms, "the girls" always seem to be in the way. I have tried switching her to more of a Weaver stance, but she say's it's not very comfortable for her.

    Any of our female shooters here have any advice for her? Or and husbands/boyfriends who's significant other has this same issue? I'm looking for advice.
     
  2. Trent

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    Oh man ... If I wasn't already sitting on a warning and an infraction I'd give some helpful advice. :)

    My wife had back surgery, so shooting from an isosceles stance is difficult for her. Problem is with a weaver stance she can't hit diddly squat if the diddly were pasted to the broad side of a barn and she was standing IN the barn (her words). She's a royal terror with a rifle though, could castrate a chipmunk at 100 yards with our ... excuse me.. HER 22-250. (It used to be mine until she claimed it.)

    Thinking about duracoating a PS90 pink for her for Christmas so she has a "handy rifle". :)
     
  3. T Bran

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    It may be a good time to check around for a good female instructor.
    This sounds like a good reason to seek profesional help from someone who has seen similar issues with other students of their own gender.
    PS It may also save you from a fair ammount of greif.
    T
     
  4. Certaindeaf

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    How about one handed?
     
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    What he said. Sometimes it can be like teaching your wife to drive. it is best left to a professional. Additionally a woman instructor will see the problems right away and has likely had students with similar stature, she will know what works best. If your wife is uncomfortable with a stance the odds are good she will never develop good shooting skills in that stance. What she needs is a good professional female instructor.

    Ron
     
  6. Plan2Live

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    +1 on the advice to get some professional help, preferably a lady instructor.

    What I have personally noticed at the range is that many women tend to lean back when shooting. This tends to raise certain female features whereas if they lean forward with their shoulders in front of their hips as is recommended, then certain female features tend to move lower and out of the way of the arms. Just a suggestion.
     
  7. 9mmepiphany

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    I'll tell you how to address the problem, but I'd also advise you not to try to teach her how to shoot...it is right up there with teaching her to drive...but rather should seek professional instruction

    I've had several clients who were women, who have the same issue you are describing. None of my clients have had the problem you describe. You're likely not instructing the Isosceles position correctly.

    For what you describe to be occurring, it is likely that she is over extending her arms...it is likely that she is locking them out when she shouldn't be. All she need to do is relax her arms and flex her elbows for clearance around her bosom
     
  8. BCRider

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    I was thinking that as well.

    From helping out part time at a local Rent A Gun range on Lady's Nights I saw more than my share of both girls and guys that had never even held a handgun before. Almost universally the ladys tended to assume a posture of hips forward and shoulders WAAAAAYYYYY back as if the handgun weighed about 20 pounds and needed to be held that way to counter balance the "massive mass" of the gun. On top of this they locked their elbows and turned them INWARDs to the point that they looked like their arms were able to bend the wrong way. Some were so able to do this that it looked almost unnatural and freaky. If your wife is doing some or all of this same stuff then that is likely part of the problem.

    I suspect that 9mm hit the nail on the head. Get her to slightly break her elbows and PIVOT THEM OUT!

    There's a bucket load of great videos on You Tube about semi auto posture technique. Locate a few and get her to watch them. Then practice with an empty gun.

    I'd also suggest that instead of you critiqueing her posture that you simply video or snap pictures of her from the side, quarter and behind and then show her the results and let her compare them to the You Tube videos.

    If she can't see and correct the differences then it's likely time for one of the handgun schools instead of you trying to correct her.

    If she complains that the correct posture is somewhat uncomfortable then simply counter with the fact that posing for Playboy is apparently tough on the joints as well.... This will either get a laugh or get you beaten about the head and shoulders. But I guarantee that it'll aid in relieving the tension.... :D
     
  9. oneounceload

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    Start with www.thecorneredcat.com
    and then follow that up with some real instruction WITHOUT you there

    Sorry, most wives/girlfriends do better taking a lesson from someone they do not know
     
  10. mnrivrat

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    How about she makes up her own stance that is comfortable and natural for her.

    One persons way be it Weaver or whomever does not fit all.

    If a two handed grip is not comfortable then as suggested, perhaps one handed will work best for her. Trying to bend the arms around the big girls just might make things turn out that way.
     
  11. wrench

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    All good suggestions you've gotten so far. I agree with proper posture, leaning forward and breaking her elbows.
    My SO is very well endowed, and has no issues at all holding and firing her pistols in an isosceles stance.
    I just asked her about this, and her other suggestion was that a proper fitting bra makes all the difference in the world. Maybe a shopping trip to your nearest Nordstrom is in order-seriously.
     
  12. armedandsafe

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    I once had a student with a similar problem. She was competitive good with a rifle, but couldn't get the pistol to eye level with her stance.

    I had her take an offhand rifle stance without the rifle. Then I placed the pistol in her strong hand and moved the pistol out to a safe distance from her face. Then I brought her fore hand back to wrap around the strong hand while lifting the weakhand elbow sightly. I had her place her weak-hand thumb up against the pistol's frame to put some pressure against canting the piece. Her body stance automatically rotated to more straight on then the rifle position put her, so we had to move the weakhand foot back just a little.

    It looks wierd to have the stronghand elbow up ear-high like that, but she was suddenly getting on target with no problem.

    Pops
     
  13. 9mmepiphany

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    The solution for leaning back is pretty simple too. Many folks don't do it, even if they've been instructed to, because it isn't explained correctly.

    All she has to do is bend her knees...it is a bit like posting in stirrups
     
  14. 230RN
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    I was going to suggest getting a laser sight for her. While lasers are no substitute for iron sights, for folks with specific problems (like declining eyesight, e.g.) it removes the necessity for bringing the gun up to eye level.

    I got a laser for my 1911 and loved it so much that I also got one for my J-Frame. They're expensive, but hang the expense.

    You can hold that dot pretty steady with a two-handed hold down near waist level. (Watch out for the slide comeback on a semiauto --don't hold it too close to the body.)

    In addition, in low-light conditions, the muzzle flash is no longer at eye level and doesn't tend to blind you for an instant.

    I'm a believer. Maybe your range has laser-sighted guns you can rent out and have her try it.

    Terry, 230RN
     
  15. Al Thompson

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    Strongly second the recommendation to get an instructor to work with her. :)

    If you are comfortable mentioning your general location, I'm sure someone could steer you to a reputable person. This is not an unusual issue.
     
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    Another vote for outside help...even if not a professional, an experienced female shooter can help more than you can. I've seen it with motorcycling and snowboarding as well.
     
  17. Sav .250

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    Tough to impose something on somebody if it doesn` work............

    Try letting her get into something(stance) that is more comfortable for her. Remember,she`s the one shooting. One stance does not fit all!
     
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    I guess there is no room for humor here. Thanks Al Thompson for your edit.:rolleyes:
     
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    I believe what some of you folks are talking about is the "Modified Weaver Stance", now that is a more natural shooting stance anyway. It allows a shooter to focus on sight alignment, and trigger control. :)
     
  20. 9mmepiphany

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    I won't speak for other posters, but I am certainly not referring to a Modified Weaver stance.

    While there may be a place for it's use...like when transversing a target...I would never recommend it as a basis to learn to shoot from as it introduces several force variables into the grip which may make learning trigger control much harder. Plus it makes shooting accurately at speed much harder
     
  21. stickhauler

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    I'd no more try to teach my wife how to shoot than I'd go shopping for her wardrobe. Jewelry is OK, she says I have amazing abilities to choose stuff she likes. I think that's just a con job to convince me that buying expensive stuff is preferable to trying to go the cheaper route.
     
  22. loose noose

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    9mm, I'm not exactly sure what you state as the "Modified Weaver Stance" having any affect on her trigger control? Perhaps we're talking about a different stance all together. Any type of shooting stance requires proper trigger control to consistently hit your target. I beleive the original poster said his wife's breast were quite large. Therefore I beleive in using a modified Weaver stance would help, as the Isoseles Stance would actually hinder, as well as the Weaver stance would in this case. Remember the main two functions used in combat shooting is "sight alignment and trigger control".:)
     
  23. 9mmepiphany

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    If you reread what I wrote, you see that it isn't what you have posted.

    I posted:
    ...which speaks to the how the force variables affect the grip, not the trigger control.

    What I further posted was that these grip variables affect the learning of trigger control. That is that it makes it harder to correctly learn trigger control because it is harder to maintain a consistent learning base to judge corrections to the grip

    Once you have learned correct trigger control, what I call trigger management, you can utilize and stance you want. You can even shoot while standing on one foot...which a lot of action shooters will do in competition

    My understanding is that the Modified Weaver is closer to the Chapman where the feet/body is more bladed away from the target (since the Weaver and Modern Isosceles use the same foot placement).

    I would think that blading the body would only exaggerate the problem
     
  24. loose noose

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    9mm, now I know what you're saying, but I thought she was allready an outstanding shot with the rifle, therefore I thought she had trigger control down. I was thinking using a "Modified Weaver Stance" that it would have a way of, shall I say, shooting around her breasts.:)
     
  25. 9mmepiphany

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    I wouldn't personally assume that. There is something about taking away the rear pivoting anchor point when aligning a handgun that adversely affects trigger management
     
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