Depends on the baricade. My pair of loaded and ready HD guns are 12guage pump with alternating rounds of 00 and #4 buckshot, with 5 slugs on the side saddle. My other HD gun is a hi-point 995 carbine loaded with 115 gr. FMJ.
Most 'baricades' in a home defense situation are 'soft' cover baricades, i.e. couch, chair, interior wall and at ranges of typically less than 25'.
Outside baricades would obviously run the gamut, but shooting through them really only happens in the movies. Blasting a bad guy hiding behind a brick wall or steel dumpster is a bad idea. If the BG is hiding, you have time to run.
Load and Brand are purely personal choice. A lot of companies currently market rounds specifically called self defense loads, try some out, and go with what you feel comfortable with.
You're bound to hear from purists who may tell you to go with nothing other than a .45, but any of the calibers you listed would be sufficient for self/home defense.
More important than the round used is your threat assessment. In my home, I have young children on the other side of those thin interior walls. Overpenetration is a concern. I also have neighbors in close proximity which is also cause for concern. Eliminating a threat at the cost of collateral damage is not something I want to experience.