Fred Fuller
Moderator Emeritus
I don't see what paragraph one has to do with paragraph two
I don't see how I can explain it any more simply. Anyone who is carrying a gun, automatically makes any confrontation they get involved with a potential gunfight, because they brought a gun to the fight. In North Carolina at least, there is this legal concept called mutual combat. Mutual combat means BOTH PARTIES were willing participants in the affray. A legal finding of mutual combat means you have basically blown any claim of self defense you might have had out of the water. While there is no legal requirement to retreat, there is a de facto requirement not to willingly get involved in conflict. And you can bet there is video that will show the progress of events in that parking lot, even if it does not capture the words.
Dealing with the situation in an indirect manner by walking away and taking other action IS NOT "laying down and taking it." It IS NOT "being apathetic to crime and allowing it to continue." It's avoiding what could turn out to be worse trouble over what started out as a relatively trivial event.
As I said, I'm not here to tell anyone how to run their lives. If anyone here wants to escalate the monkey dance that some stumblebum started over blocking access to a vehicle's driver side door, by all means feel free. Heck, you don't even have to find an attorney beforehand and ask if that's really a good idea or not. For all I know, in your jurisdiction it might be considered a good idea - there's that much variation in laws from state to state. You might even get your name in the paper, for all I know. But it's best to know the legal light in which your own jurisdiction will view an incident such as this, before you go kicking it off.
It's a lot more painful and expensive to learn legal lessons like that after the fact...
I don't see how I can explain it any more simply. Anyone who is carrying a gun, automatically makes any confrontation they get involved with a potential gunfight, because they brought a gun to the fight. In North Carolina at least, there is this legal concept called mutual combat. Mutual combat means BOTH PARTIES were willing participants in the affray. A legal finding of mutual combat means you have basically blown any claim of self defense you might have had out of the water. While there is no legal requirement to retreat, there is a de facto requirement not to willingly get involved in conflict. And you can bet there is video that will show the progress of events in that parking lot, even if it does not capture the words.
Dealing with the situation in an indirect manner by walking away and taking other action IS NOT "laying down and taking it." It IS NOT "being apathetic to crime and allowing it to continue." It's avoiding what could turn out to be worse trouble over what started out as a relatively trivial event.
As I said, I'm not here to tell anyone how to run their lives. If anyone here wants to escalate the monkey dance that some stumblebum started over blocking access to a vehicle's driver side door, by all means feel free. Heck, you don't even have to find an attorney beforehand and ask if that's really a good idea or not. For all I know, in your jurisdiction it might be considered a good idea - there's that much variation in laws from state to state. You might even get your name in the paper, for all I know. But it's best to know the legal light in which your own jurisdiction will view an incident such as this, before you go kicking it off.
It's a lot more painful and expensive to learn legal lessons like that after the fact...