Well, I took her shooting today. She liked my .22, but didn't like my SKS so much because it "kicked". This is probably because the first few times she shot it, she didn't shoulder it right and it pinched her. She did like my Winchester 1300 20 gauge. So she liked the shotgun.
We shot on someone's private range, and he let us use his Browning Buckmark. She really, really liked that. I did too, as I've never fired it before, but she really liked it. She learned more about aiming from it than from a rifle. He also let us shoot his Kimber 1911 compact. I've never shot a 1911, so it was an experience for me. I had a blast, but she didn't like it for a reason she "couldn't explain." Oh, and I learned why you shouldn't open your mouth. My mouth was open when she squeezed off a round from the Kimber...the shock wave went through the roof of my mouth. Lesson learned.
He also let me shoot his 30-06 scoped Browning A-bolt at some water jugs at 275 yards. I hit all of them, and it was a blast.
Then he let me shoot some 3 1/2 inch Magnum #5 12 gauge shells from his Browning Silver after I spoke up about the recoil of the 30-06. That shotgun kicked, a lot. I was very pleased, but she seemed to think I was crazy.
But we both had a blast. We learned that she liked the low recoil things, even though I consider an SKS pretty low recoil. She liked the idea of a handgun, and I suppose it's possible we could get one in a private sale, but I said that it has a lot of disadvantages in a real world situation that don't apply on a range.
She liked the shotgun, which is good. I told her that if she gets one, we can find a load that works for her.
I also told her that the SKS is a rifle shooting rifle rounds, and has a steel buttplate. I said that a pistol caliber rifle like a hi-point wouldn't be anything like it. To her credit though, she said that it "wasn't as bad" once she shouldered it properly. We also shot standing after that instead of benched because I said that you wouldn't feel the recoil as much. I think those first experiences have given her a negative first impression. Mind over matter.
She also said, on her own accord, that this is just the first step, and she could upgrade later in life. I agreed.