I might suggest for all men who are 'choosing' and/or 'suggesting' a gun for a female significant other, that they pair their selection with a quality course on handgun usage oriented towards females. They are springing up all over the country by good people.
Thus, the person in question might be exposed to quality handguns without the male ego of 'my way' is the 'way'. Finding your own way sounds nice but there are better ways.
Oh, spare us the rage quitting of the thread when you don't like the opinions. Just don't come back to it. Read
https://www.complex.com/pop-culture...rgument-on-the-internet/never-stop-commenting for hints.